This week is quite significant for many reasons. Yesterday was Palm Sunday that is the official kick-off to “Holy Week.” Which you may recall was when Jesus made His triumphant entry into Jerusalem. Growing up I always liked this weekend because Palm branches would be handed out at church which we then made a cross with it to keep around the house. At the time I did not understand the significance of the tradition nor how important Holy Week is. Friday is of course the day when we remember the ultimate sacrifice that Jesus paid for our sins when He was nailed to the cross. And smack dab in the middle of the week between Jesus entering Jerusalem and subsequent death on a Roman cross, is the Jewish celebration of Passover is on Wednesday which is the remembrance of when the Israelite people were spared when the angel of death “passed over” their homes in Egypt because they put the blood of a scarified lamb over the doorway. Besides the religious significance, this week according to the Surgeon General “is going to be our Pearl Harbor moment.” As I turned on the TV this morning, news report after news report warns that the USA is facing the worst week of the Covid-19 outbreak. As we have been “social distancing,” (which I have to say I cannot stand hearing that phrase, I prefer “physical distancing” but I digress), the most repeated thing that I have asked, or have been asked, is “how are doing in quarantine?” So, I will tell you, I am doing good. Like so many, it has been (3) weeks now that we have self-quarantined. In these difficult and confusing times, it’s been comforting to be with my wife and (2) daughters, facing this together. Each of us have been “finding our new normal.” I have commandeered the dining room as my work space, while our daughters have each found their own place to attend classes online. One blessing of being quarantined with my family is enjoying having lunch together and then 3 pm coffee time with my wife. I think the most interesting change is that I am now the one hitting Costco, Kroger or Walmart just trying to find the essentials. As I got ready yesterday and folded up my bandanna with some of my wife’s hair ties to create a makeshift mask, I felt a little like this guy…
Hahaha! And I am happy to report that yesterday I hit “pay dirt!”
The media has created such a frenzy with non-stop coverage of empty shelves, the number of infected and sadly the death toll. There is without a doubt a reason to be concerned and take precautions, but we need to not allow our lives to be driven by fear! I was reading this YouVersion Easter reading plan called ‘Risen’ by Ray Johnston, and he had this great insight:
“Fear is the darkroom where negatives develop.”
Fear will cause us to act irrationally like hording toilet paper and can open the door to the enemy’s attack. After I came home yesterday from Winco with my precious paper products, mind you I have not had paper towels in 3 weeks…talk about first world problems…I then gathered with my family to stream the church service. And the ironic part, the sermon was called “Overcoming Fear” by Jimmy Evans. This timely message was all about God wanting us to have peace, not fear! He shared that:
“Fear is a prophet spirit from hell, sent to give us a negative report about the future that will upset us and cause us to make a fear-based decision that God will not honor.”
That is so, so powerful! How many fear-based decisions are being made right now? The enemy loves to use fear as a weapon against us but 2 Timothy 1:7 (NLT) tells us:
“For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.”
Jimmy Evans also said that:
“God never uses fear! He uses peace!”
That got me thinking about the Jewish celebration of Passover this week and the word that they use for peace… “Shalom,” which as you may have guessed, is the inspiration of this post. I asked a friend of mine who has a lot of knowledge about Judaism what is a trusted definition of the word Shalom and he said:
“The basic definition is peace for sure. But that peace, is a peace that goes beyond just peace with others, but peace with self, circumstances, emotions, etc. More like the peace of a new born babe in his/her mother’s arms. Like that. Where things may be happening but finding that security in God.”
What a powerful image right? We can find peace in God like a baby has in its mother’s arms.
This past February, my wife and I went to the XO Marriage Conference and heard Dave and Ashley Willis talk about “Finding Peace in Marriage Conflicts.” They shared this great definition for Shalom:
“Breaking the authority established by chaos.”
That is what I believe many of us need to do! We need to break the authority that we have allowed chaos to have over our lives. Satan is the author of confusion and it is only when we take captive our thoughts that we can have True Shalom. 1 Corinthians 14:33a (NLT) reminds us…
“For God is not a God of disorder but of peace.” (“of Shalom” – see the Tree of Life Translation).
I just reading John chapter 14 in which Jesus comforted His Disciples about the end times. He book-ended the chapter with an offer of peace. John 14:1 (NLT) start off:
““Don’t let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God, and trust also in me.””
I love the comfort found in John 14:1. This image reminded me of my many times in detention back in High School where the Dean had me write over and over “I will not _____ .”(Fill in the blank with whatever my offense was that day). Hahaha! I hated this punishment, but you know there is something about repetition that helps us learn the lesson. The same is true for our Life…Jesus gave us the key to ANY situation…“Trust in God, and trust also in [Him].” There is no better cure for anxiety than praying to the ONE who can comfort, heal and provide for us!
He meant this so much that at the end of the chapter, Jesus made this statement:
“I am leaving you with a gift — peace of mind and heart. And the peace I give is a gift the world cannot give. So don’t be troubled or afraid.” John 14:27
So the question is, do you want to trust in the nightly news or the ONE who created you? The ONE who is your true provider! Jesus will provide much more than what your physical needs are, He with give you “peace of mind and heart!” All you need to do is ask Him for it today.
Pray…Stay Safe in Quarantine…and of course wash your hands!
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Well we are 18 days into 2020, any revelations? Do you have a Word for the New Year? Or maybe I should say, have you asked God for one? For those of you who may not have done this in the past, let me just pause a moment and explain. Since 2015, as the year draws to an end, and a new page of the calendar is about to be flipped, I ask the Holy Spirit to give me a Wordfor the year. Sometimes it has been a phrase and other times a single word. Here are the past “Words/Phrases” so you can get an idea of what I mean:
If you are interested, just click on the link and you can read the associated post. There have even been times that it comes before I even ask, as was the case this year. It was December 29, 2019, and we were at my in-laws’ church in South Carolina that I felt the Holy Spirit impress upon me the word “CONSISTENCY” as my Word for the new year. I heard John Maxwell at the Gateway Church Legacy Conference talk about consistency in a way I never heard before. He said that it is the most underrated word in the dictionary which is not sexy or even something that you would love to be called but, in the end, “CONSISTENCY COMPOUNDS.”
When I think of “compounding,” my 401k comes to mind, and how the interest on the money over time gains momentum and produces a good return on my investment. Well the same is true when you consistently apply yourself in an area of your life, whether that is committing to a daily quiet time with God, scheduling time at the gym to stay healthy or being intentional with cultivating genuine community with the people in your life. It all comes down to discipline! Something that I struggled with for most of my life, but I have come to realize that it is absolutely necessary in order to be consistent. As Hebrews 12:11 (HCSB) reminds us:
“No discipline seems enjoyable at the time but painful. Later on, however, it yields the fruit of peace and righteousness to those who have been trained by it.”
“Consistency is the ability to continually do the right thing every day regardless of whether the odds are for you, or the circumstances are favorable. If you want to go to greatness, don’t go to greatness, go to consistency. Practice it, that’s the path that will lead you to greatness.”
“Consistency is the ability to continually do the right thing every day!” I love that! And just like the verse in Hebrews, we must “practice it!” No meaningful change happens without work and unfortunately it never happens overnight! I read somewhere this quote that puts it perfectly…
“Small disciplines repeated with consistency every day lead to great achievements gained slowly over time.” John Maxwell
2020 is going to be the year that this will be true of me! I want to be known as a man who is CONSISTENT in ALL areas of my life:
SPIRITUALLY…that my walk with Christ would be stronger than ever as I grow in my daily dependence on the Holy Spirit.
PHYSICALLY…that my health would be the best that it ever has been.
AND EMOTIONALLY…that my relationships with my wife, two daughters, friends and co-workers would be better than ever and life-affirming.
I am not going to grow in my relationship with Jesus and exhibit the fruit of the Holy Spirit (Galatians 5:16-25) unless I connect daily to follow the Spirit’s leading in every part of my life. I wish after my workouts I would instantly see a difference in the mirror, but I don’t. My target weight will only be achieved after months of effort. The same is true for my relationships. Unless I reach out and put in the effort to show the people in my life that I care and am invested in what matters to them, the connection will be surface level at best.
Over the past 20 days since I received my Word, I have been ruminating over this and looking for an example of someone who has modeled this in their life. So here goes…
SPIRITUAL MODEL: DAVID.
Now you may be thinking, why would he not choose Jesus? After all He is the only perfect person who ever lived! While that is certainly true, I landed on David because he is the only human who is described as “a man after god’s own heart” in the Bible (see 1 Samuel 13:14 and Acts 13:22). David is a complex person and you may remember in our “Temptation Series,” that I used him as the example of what not to (see the post ★ Thought for the Day – Avoiding the Consequences of Lust (Part 3b) ★,) but even so, the scriptures are clear that David consistently chased after God with his whole heart! As a main contributor to the Book of Psalms, you see the love, trust and devotion he had for the Father. David said in Psalms 119:5 (NLT):
“Oh, that my actions would consistently reflect your decrees!”
I want that to be true in my life! That everything that I think, say or do would reflect God’s Word. I read a commentary from David Guzik on Psalm 119:5 in which he said:
“This is not only a pious wish; it is also a prayer for the ability to obey God’s Word. We received God’s commands understanding our lack of ability to keep those commands, apart from His work in us.”
To achieve this I know, I must have a consistent quiet time with God where I daily pray, read the bible and seek the Holy Spirit’s leading in my life. I have also found that Bible Studies with other believers have strengthen me as Proverbs 27:17 says.
PHYSICAL MODEL: MY WIFE.
Now before you start groaning and judging me that this is some self-serving sucking up, there is no one I know who has consistently made her health a priority in her life. If you have been on this blog before, you no doubt have seen me post pictures from her Facebook page Fit Family in which she integrates her 3 loves – Faith, Family, and Fitness. I have been married to her for over 20 years, and she has shown me day after day what it means to live a healthy life, one which is balanced with exercise and proper diet. Not dieting, BUT good choices with correct portions. My wife, who is very healthy and loves to workout, made this point to me in the past that the Holy Spirit just brought back to me remembrance, she said:
“You are so disciplined in your quiet time with God, why can’t you be disciplined in your health as well?”
Great question huh? Now you may think this was rude, but it honestly said in love because she wants to keep me around for as long as possible! Hahaha! When she met me, working out and watching what I ate was NOT me at all. I never exercised and I was a “biggie” size consumer, that the larger the portions, the better. Through her example I have learned what a balanced life looks like, and over the years I have improved but I am far from consistent. It is funny that what my wife challenged me with, is actually found in scripture! I was just reading 3 John 1:2 (NLT) last week in which John offered this greeting to his friend Gaius:
“Dear friend, I hope all is well with you and that you are as healthy in body as you are strong in spirit.”
So, though I desire first and foremost, to be consistent in my spiritual walk, I realized that I need to be consistent in EVERY part of my life so part of my prayer for 2020 is that I am “as healthy in body as [I am] strong in spirit!” Last year I hit 45, and with my mom dying from a stroke in 2016, it’s time that I commit to a consistently work at improving my health!
EMOTIONAL MODEL: FRED ROGERS.
Some may be thinking, who is Fred Rogers?! Others may only know him only as Mr. Rogers, the much-loved host of the TV show “Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood,” which was a permanent fixture on TV sets across the country, airing on PBS from 1968 to 2001. Last Saturday we went to see the movie “A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood” for the second time, and as I watched again Tom Hanks brilliantly portray the caring man who was so invested in helping kids understand the world, I was mesmerized all over again and thought this would be the perfect example of emotional consistency! Interestingly enough, it was not until the credits that I discovered that the movie was based on the 1998 Esquire article called “CAN YOU SAY…“HERO”?” by Tom Junod.
I looked up the article and was amazed to see the tag line under the title:
“Fred Rogers has been doing the same small good thing for a very long time.”
That is perfect!! Both in the movie and in real life, Fred Rogers reached out to everyone and worked to connect on an emotional level that made you feel so special. The author of the article was jaded by the world and in need of someone to care for him. As I read the Esquire article, I was moved to tears to read story after story of how profoundly affected people were by this meek man of God who made a simple offer every time “Will you be my neighbor?”One part that hit me really hard was this:
“The connections we make in the course of a life—maybe that’s what heaven is!” Amen? Jesus made this clear in Matthew 22:37-39 (NLT) when answering the question from one of the experts in religious law who asked him which is the most important commandment?
“Jesus replied, “‘You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. A second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”
The third part of my pray for 2020 is that I will consistently pursue a deeper connection with those in my life as modeled by Fred Rogers and to love my neighbor as much as I love myself!
So, I close with my original question…What’s your Word for 2020? I encourage you to ask the Holy Spirit for one, it is a great way to center your year as you delve into the Bible in 2020.
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My wife sent me this meme that is just plain hysterical!!
Every year around this time I get so frustrated with the excessive consumerism and rampant disregard of civility. There are so video clips of people beating one another just to get the hottest Black Friday deal all in the name of saving money! It got me thinking about this image that I saw from Tony Evans:
“The money you have came from God’s trees. Everything you have belongs to God.”
Have you ever thought of that $20 bill in your pocket comes from trees that the Creator of Heaven and Earth spoke into existence? (See Genesis 1:9-13).
I know I haven’t. This image reminds me a lot of Psalms 24:1 (NASB)…
“The earth is the LORD’S, and all it contains, the world, and those who dwell in it.”
And as Tony Evans stated it…“fear produces poor stewardship.” When we fail to understand “Who’s the owner,” we get into trouble and fail to “Be a good steward” which is Biblical mandate! As I was mulling this over, I got excited to resurrect a post called ★ Thought for the Day – Marriage & Money – Part 3 ★ which was part of a 4-part series to help spouse understand how to have unity in our Finances. Today I am going to cover the major points of contrasting what are the common views of money that people have vs. God’s view of money. Jesus’ famous Sermon on the Mount gives a perfect outline how our finances and possessions should be handled from God’s Perspective. For simplicity’s sake I will refer to it as “Man’s View of Money,” but obviously that goes for the women as well.
Did you know that there are more than 2,350 verses in the Bible instructing us on how to handle money and possessions that God has placed in our care? In today’s culture of instant gratification and entitlement. It seems that ought to learn what the Bible has to say. So, let’s start off with Matthew 6:19 (NASB) in which Jesus started off the teaching on money and possession saying:
“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal.”
Storing up stuff here on Earth is going in the wrong direction. Christian financial expert Larry Burkett said
“How we handle money is simply an outside indicator of our internal spiritual condition.”
1. The first view we are going to look at is Debt and Contentment:
The amazing thing is that as we are buying all the stuff on credit, we never realize that we are willingly entering into bondage to the credit card company or the car finance department or the mortgage company The world aggressively markets us that we no longer see debt as a problem which is how fist fights break out in Walmart on the day after we “Give Thanks!” The key is to be a wise consumer and not try to keep up with the “Joneses.” The question I have for you is…Are you content with what God is doing in your life? I Timothy 6:6 (NKJV) says,
“Now godliness with contentment is great gain.”
In the past I struggled big time with this, I was not content with waiting to have what I wanted and as a result I brought a lot of pressure into our marriage. As a result of not being content with what we had, my wife and I have accumulated consumer debt that we have had for years because we did not wait to save up. And I have to say it has frustrated me so much to be limited in what we can do because monthly credit card minimums. Have you ever thought about what you could do for the kingdom of God if you were not buried under credit card debt or car payments or a mortgage that you really cannot afford? Proverbs 22:7 is so true, debt really does make us a slave to the lender, this is another great way to view it!
Amen?! Too often we cannot say no to what marketers are selling, think about it, part of any effective advertising campaign is to make potential customers discontented with their existing product. These feelings that accompany discontentment are enough to make people buy things they don’t need or can’t afford. And sometimes it doesn’t even need to be a big screen TV or expensive purse it could just be eating out too much. I love what Dave Ramsey says about debt,
“Debt is not the problem, but a symptom. Debt is a symptom of overspending and undersaving.”
Debt is just a symptom of a bigger problem that we cannot say no to stuff and Proverbs 17:18 (MSG) puts a fine point on it,
“It’s stupid to try to get something for nothing, or run up huge bills you can never pay.”
So how do we erase debt? You have to choose to say no to what you want and focus on what you need. You need to learn contentment. Howard Dayton, from Crown Financial Ministries said:
“If you cannot be content with what you have, you will never be content with what you want.”
How many times have we seen this play out with celebrities who are on top of the world and are still not happy? The Apostle Paul knew about contentment and trusting in God’s Provisions. When he was in prison, Paul wrote in Philippians 4:19 (NASB) about God’s Provisions,
“And my God will supply all your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus.”
If you look closely verse 19 says “all your needs” will be supplied. Discontentment ignores the provisions of our needs and focuses on what we do not have and conversely on what we want. We need to get to a place where our circumstances do not dictate whether we have joy or peace.
2. The second view we will look at is a hot button issue and that is Tithing.
All of these comments under “Man’s View,” I have thought at one time or another in my life. Growing up and into adulthood, I have seen a lot of hypocrisy in the church on how they handled the money and how they would badger the congregants to give more and more. These experiences happened in different denominations, so I know that it is not based on church affiliation but on the human heart. The simple fact is that Man will always let you down, but the key is not lumping God in the same category as a church or pastor that misrepresented Him by their actions. Jesus said in Matthew 6:20 (NASB),
“But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves do not break in or steal;”
God does not need our money, but He wants our hearts to be focused on the Kingdom of Heaven, not on stuff here on earth. He knew that we would have an issue in this area which is why God made the requirement in the first place so that MONEY would not have a hold on OUR HEARTS. The tithe or 10% of our income which is actually the minimum required by God. Malachi 3:10-12 (NIV1984) says it all,
“Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. Test me in this,” says the LORD Almighty, “and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that you will not have room enough for it. I will prevent pests from devouring your crops, and the vines in your fields will not cast their fruit,” says the LORD Almighty. “Then all the nations will call you blessed, for yours will be a delightful land,” says the LORD Almighty.”
I love this verse because it is the only place in the Bible that God challenges us to “Test” Him. And if we pass the test, He promises to throw open the floodgates of heaven (or other translations say the “windows of heaven”) and bless us so much that we will not have room enough to store it. Now that is what I want. He also promises to prevent pests or the enemy from devouring what we have and that is not just finances and possessions but our marriage, our children and our health. So, you see we really can’t afford not to give our tithe to the Lord.
Robert Morris made this great point…
“Tithing is believing God can do more with 90% than you can do with 100%.”
Rather than gripping about ““losing”” 10% we should be happy that we get to keep 90%! Proverbs 3:9–10 (NIV1984) instructs us to,
“Honor the LORD with your wealth, with the first fruits of all your crops; then your barns will be filled to overflowing, and your vats will brim over with new wine.”
One thing that I have noticed is that if I do not make my tithes and offerings a priority there will always be something else that will eat up the money. When it says “First Fruits” here it means above all things, first and foremost, Honor the Lord with your wealth which He has provided for you. Robert Morris also:
“It doesn’t take faith to pay all your bills and THEN give to God. Put the kingdom of God FIRST… and see what happens to your provision!”
If you do that the blessings will overflow!! If you are not already tithing, I urge you to start and I promise you will never regret giving the Lord. In Luke 6:38 (NIV1984), Jesus said,
“Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.”
Your level of giving will be measured against you on what you receive. My absolute favorite question is…”Is the tithe based on the gross or the net”? I have asked this question myself and the best answer I have ever heard was, “What do you want to be blessed on??” You see it is all about the motive and the heart of the giver and how much you trust God. Rick Warren said,
“God’s BLESSING on you is always in proportion to your DEPENDENCE on Him. Great anointing is the fruit of great trusting.”
2 Corinthians 9:7 (NIV1984) says,
“Each man should give what he has decided in his heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.”
If you heart is not in the right place, you will not please God with you giving. God knew what hold money and possessions would have on our hearts and that is why so much teaching in the Bible deals with this.
3. Stewardship is the next view we will look at. Merriam-Webster dictionary defines it as:
the office, duties, and obligations of a steward – I always love how they define a word with the same word, I thought that was not allowed. A Steward (is defined as a fiscal agent or manager).
the conducting, supervising, or managing of something; especially: the careful and responsible management of something entrusted to one’s care.
So, when we talk about Biblical Stewardship, we are talking about management of money and resources for God. This however is not the conventional wisdom of this age. Let’s take a look at the different views that exist…
We need to understand that it is not our money. God is the owner and we are His managers entrusted with His affairs and His possessions. If Jesus spoke so much on the topic, don’t you think it may be important for us to understand what we are expected to do as managers of the resources God allows to come into our hands? I love how Robert Morris makes the point,
“Many believers aren’t aware of this, but EVERY time you get paid, you are facing a test.”
The test is, whether we can be trusted to be a good manager. Luke 16:10-11 (NIV1984) says,
“Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much. So if you have not been trustworthy in handling worldly wealth, who will trust you with true riches?”
Okay, so then how do we handle money as faithful managers? I will give you a hint, it is the B-word of finances….You guess it the “Dreaded Budget”. Yes, we have finally gotten to the part that you have been dying to get to – NOT! Hahaha! The budget is the absolute key to winning at money. John Maxwell put it this way,
“A budget is telling your money where to go instead of wondering where it went.”
Dave Ramsey suggests using a “Zero-Based Budget.”
The “Zero-Based Budget” approach which is where the Total Expenses = Total Income. Every dollar is spent on paper before it is spent. If done this way, when you work through every category on your budget sheet you should end up with a zero (no extra money left over, or extra money spent).
It always amazed us when the checking account was empty, and we had no idea where the money went. Though we did not spend large sums of money on expenses items, we were $20 and $50 ourselves to death. One of my favorite quotes from Albert Einstein is:
“Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”
Trying to manage your finances without a budget, without a plan is the very definition of insanity because you will never know where the money went and in most cases you will end up with “more month” then there is money to go around and I don’t need to tell you what a breeding ground for conflict that causes. The budget is paramount to reduce stress and help control you to control your spending.
4. The number four view is Idolatry and Greed.
Money and possessions cannot make you happy or fill the void, it cannot buy happiness. Jesus furthers the point in Matthew 6:24 (NASB) when He said,
“No one can serve two masters; (the Message translates this as ‘two gods,’) for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and wealth.”
Money can become an Idol and if we are not careful, it can replace God. And no discussion on greed can be complete without us mentioning one of the most famous scriptures from 1 Timothy 6:10 (NLT),
“For the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil. And some people, craving money, have wandered from the true faith and pierced themselves with many sorrows.”
This is one of the most famous and most misquoted verses. Many people say, “money is the root of all kinds of evil,” but if you look carefully it says, “for the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil.” And that love of money can cause us to wander from the faith and cause many problems in our marriage and finances. It is all about the heart and until you have that right, you will continually spin your wheels and never please God.
5. Worry is number five.
Some reading this post that have lost their jobs due to no fault of their own, so I want to be careful in how I pose this section contrasting Man’s view with God’s view. But what Jesus is saying here is that we need to put out trust in Him and not be troubled but the nightly news headlines because He is in control. We need to rely on God and God alone. Look at this cartoon; I love the punch line from the man’s wife,
“Why don’t you stop wondering what is wrong with the world and just read the manual”.
The bible is the one and only manual that will point our lives in the right direction. As we place our concerns in God’s capable hands, we find a quietness that only He can provide. God gives peace to those who are quiet before Him as Philippians 4:6 (NASB) says we are to,
“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.”
Boy that is a hard one for me sometimes but the longer I walk with God the more I realize when I just put in his hands (and leave it there), He will take care of my every need. I am not the provider for my family, God is the provider.
6. The final view we will look at tonight is Legacy.
I saw this comic, and though it is funny, it is also quite sobering!
But Jesus made God’s view clear in Matthew 6:33 (NASB) which says,
“But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
God should be ahead of everything else, if we do, everything else will be added to us. It should be a great concern of ours about the debt just continuing to grow with no thought of the future.
1 Timothy 5:8 (NASB) says,
“But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.”
If you are not thinking about the legacy you leave, you are considered to have “denied the faith” and are “worse than an unbeliever!” To add to that thought, Proverbs 13:22 (NIV1984) says,
“A good man leaves an inheritance for his children’s children, but a sinner’s wealth is stored up for the righteous.”
How much would people change their spending habits if they thought about providing for their “children’s children”….if they thought generational? One of Dave Ramsey’s most famous quotes is,
How we live now will greatly affect how we will live in the future. And at the risk of making this post a little longer, I wanted to let you know that applying these principles contained in this post will change your life! We are living proof of it! For years now, my wife and I have applying ourselves, being a good steward, tithing consistently and working to eliminate the consumer debt and I am thrilled to report that as of November 19, 2019 we are Debt Free! (…Everything but the house.) I cannot tell you how liberating of a feeling it is!
To go along with that thought, I wanted to share an amazing sermon series called Beyond Blessed, in which Robert Morris unpacks what the “Bible says about the importance of wise stewardship and how it’s God’s perfect plan to overcome all financial stress.” I would like to close with this final thought…
“God blesses us because He loves us, and He also blesses us so we can be a blessing. Living beyond blessed isn’t about what we’re able to receive; it’s about what we’re able to give. It’s then that we can truly live beyond blessed.”
I pray that you receive that today and that you will commit to “Be a good steward!” Nothing changes if nothing changes. I hope that this post is a springboard for you to start your journey to expand your Biblical Worldview of Money and begin to adopt God’s View of how we handle our Finances and Possessions! May God richly bless you as you trust in Him completely!
Yesterday we had a strong thunderstorm roll through our area that brought lighting and hail which got me thinking about this this Thought for the Day. What comes to mind when you read the title of this post?If you were like me, and grew up with the classic TV show “A Charlie Brown Christmas,” an image of Linus with his security blanket may come to mind. Or maybe you may be thinking about the Downy Infusions Calm TV Commercial that shows a cute little boy who is awakened by a thunder and lightning storm outside. As he runs down the hall scared to Mommy and climbs onto her bed, he smells a fragrance coming from one of the blankets that immediately calms him by the lavender scent. Instead of staying in bed with his Mommy, he grabs the blanket and goes back to his bed smelling it all the way. While I could write about either one of these, the inspiration came from my “four-legged son” Jake, who like the frightened young boy, is also terrified by thunderstorms and goes running to his “Mommy.” We always know when a storm is coming because Jake starts shaking like a leaf and incessantly panting. And last night was no different, he was a mess and would not calm down. I remember one day, my wife sent me these photos because Jake was freaking out so bad that he pushed his way into the shower and then tried climbing onto the bed.
Now as you may be chuckling, it’s actually really sad to see him suffering so bad from the anxiety of the impending storm. No amount of petting or hugging or soothing words could settle Jake down. Only one thing helps him…
His ThunderShirt. Forgive me if this seems like a promotion, but it really works (and I receive no kickbacks for saying so, hahaha!) The website says that it…
“Applies gentle, constant pressure, similar to swaddling an infant.”
“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
In the post, we talked about how if we go to God with our anxieties, He WILL be help us through anything!! A common misconception of Christianity is that once you give your life over to God, and accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior, everything in your life should be sunshine and roses! BUT THAT SIMPLY IS NOT TRUE! We live in a fallen, broken world in which God-fearing, Jesus believing, Holy Spirit filled Christians lose their jobs, contract cancer, or experience the death of a loved one. However, the Bible offers encouragement throughout the pages which can help us to deal with our worry and fear, which is of course is completely normal to experience as we go through the storms of life. In the post ★ Thought for the Day – Be Strong and Courageous ★, I shared about our daughter heading to Atlanta for a three-day training camp before heading to Eswatini (formally known as Swaziland) and South Africa for a two-month Missions Trip, and the anxiety we were feeling having our first-born child on the other side of the world over 9,000 miles away from us! God spoke to me through Joshua 1:6-9 to “Be strong and courageous” and trust that she would be alright. Well the 2 months came and went, and she arrived safely home from Africa with incredible stories of how God worked in and through her.
Today I would like to unpack the context of the anchor passage of Philippians 4:6-7 because as you have heard me say in the past, context is everything. Like anything, it always come down to a choice.
Will you CHOOSE to WORRY or TRUST God?
Will you CHOOSE to TRY TO CONTROL EVERYTHING or LET GO and LET GOD HANDLE IT?
Will you CHOOSE to LISTEN TO THE LIES OF DEVIL that God is not good, or WILL YOU REMEMBER how He took care of you in the past and BELIEVE that God is faithful?
So, let’s look at the verses that bookend our anchor passage that can help us find where true comfort can be found. Philippians 4:4-5 (NLT) says:
“Always be full of joy in the Lord. I say it again—rejoice! Let everyone see that you are considerate in all you do. Remember, the Lord is coming soon.”
That is a tough one, right? To “always be full of joy,” easier said than done, but the way we gain victory is “in the Lord,” not through “white-knuckle” effort on our part. The only think we must do is choose to believe that the Lord is good, that He is for us and not against us, and that He is able to do more than we can ever expect! As we do this, then the need of a “security blanket” to comfort us through the “storms” will not be necessary. Comfort which typically is not a blanket or ThunderShirt but rather something that comes from a bottle, prescription or something altogether illegal. Comfort items that before I came to Christ, I tried to fill the void in my heart but to no avail! Depression, fear, anxiety WILL NEVER BE CURED with another drink, pill or _______ (fill in the blank.) If only I knew the truth of Philippians 4 back then!
Let’s look at the other book end which is Philippians 4:8-9 (NLT) which is the application portion…
“And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. Keep putting into practice all you learned and received from me — everything you heard from me and saw me doing. Then the God of peace will be with you.”
What we focus on is what we will experience. We need to “keep putting into practice” and as we do our faith will be built up and our worry will wither away! It is all about discipline and training ourselves to look to God instead of whatever “blanket” we got to which only covers the problem, it will never fix the root issue! I will close with this truth from Jimmy Evans,
“Fear is expecting the Devil to move. Faith is expecting God to move.”
And in John 16:33 (The Passion Translation) Jesus made this promise…
“And everything I’ve taught you is so that the peace which is in me will be in you and will give you great confidence as you rest in me. For in this unbelieving world you will experience trouble and sorrows, but you must be courageous, for I have conquered the world!””
Through a relationship with Jesus, you can conquer the world!
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If you are old enough to recognize this, here is a trip down memory lane so that you can listen what internet connectivity sounded like back in 1990-something! Click this link to Hear
For those who have never experienced the dial-up connection speed of the classic 56k modem, it would sometimes take 5-10 minutes to connect to the World Wide Web and many times it would fail, making you start the process all over again. Those were dark days for browsing the internet and sending/receiving emails! Hahaha! What a different world we live in today as we now walk around with supercomputers in the palm of our hand, and if it takes 5 seconds to load a web page, or if an email does not send immediately it feels like forever! Today the “FCC has defined broadband, or fast internet, as internet with download speeds of at least 25 Mbps and upload speeds of at least 3 Mbps since 2015.” Many people geek out on download speeds but did you know that there was an Old Testament character who had a download speed that crushed 25 Mbps.
Today’s Thought was inspired from a passage that is not widely preached or read…2 Kings 6:24-30 (NLT) which says:
“Some time later, however, King Ben-hadad of Aram mustered his entire army and besieged Samaria. As a result, there was a great famine in the city. The siege lasted so long that a donkey’s head sold for eighty pieces of silver, and a cup of dove’s dung sold for five pieces of silver.
Forgive the introduction but can you say EWWWWWW… “a cup of dove’s dung sold for five pieces of silver!!!” That must have been one long siege that not only was it worth so much, but that the people were actually so hungry that they ate dove’s feces!!! Yuck! Okay, back to the passage…
“One day as the king of Israel (Jehoram) was walking along the wall of the city, a woman called to him, “Please help me, my lord the king!”
He answered, “If the Lord doesn’t help you, what can I do? I have neither food from the threshing floor nor wine from the press to give you.” But then the king asked, “What is the matter?”
She replied, “This woman said to me: ‘Come on, let’s eat your son today, then we will eat my son tomorrow.’ So we cooked my son and ate him. Then the next day I said to her, ‘Kill your son so we can eat him,’ but she has hidden her son.”
When the king heard this, he tore his clothes in despair. And as the king walked along the wall, the people could see that he was wearing burlap under his robe next to his skin.”
2 Kings 6:24-30 is one of the most disturbing passages ever! I cannot believe that the two women even discussed the idea of killing their children, and then worse yet eating them! But if that’s not sick enough, the fact that one of the women did kill her son with and eat him with the other woman is absolutely unbelievable!!! I believe if I were in that situation, I would sacrifice myself first! Disturbing!!!! I looked up this passage in a commentary and they pointed out that God warned Israel that this curse would come upon the Israelites if they rejected the covenant they made with Him, I don’t have time to unpack this, but check out Deuteronomy 28:52-53 for the context. But what I wanted to point was what King Jehoram said in 2 Kings 6:31:
“May God strike me and even kill me if I don’t separate Elisha’s head from his shoulders this very day,” the king vowed.”
God promised back in Deuteronomy that a curse was coming if the people disobeyed Him but instead of blaming God, King Jehoram decided to take it out on the Prophet Elisha that the siege happened and was ready to kill him! It was 2 Kings 6:32-33 (NLT) that blew me away when I read it the other morning!
“Elisha was sitting in his house with the elders of Israel when the king (Jehoram) sent a messenger to summon him. But before the messenger arrived, Elisha said to the elders,
“A murderer (the King of Israel) has sent a man to cut off my head. When he arrives, shut the door and keep him out. We will soon hear his master’s steps following him.”
While Elisha was still saying this, the messenger arrived. And the king said, “All this misery is from the Lord! Why should I wait for the Lord any longer?””
Did you catch it?? Elisha got an instant download from God that danger was approaching! How amazing is that? The Prophet Elisha was so connected to God that he received an immediate alert that danger was coming for him. In the post, ★ Thought for the Day – The Holy Spirit is Our Spider Sense ★, we looked at how the Holy Spirit is our “early warning system” about the activities of the enemy, similar to how Spiderman, The Holy Spirit is “Our Spider Sense.” Just like Elisha, when we have a connection to the Holy Spirit, we will have his protection. Long before Elisha, God revealed in Job 33:14-18 (NLT) that:
“For God speaks again and again, though people do not recognize it. He speaks in dreams, in visions of the night, when deep sleep falls on people as they lie in their beds. He whispers in their ears and terrifies them with warnings. He makes them turn from doing wrong; he keeps them from pride. He protects them from the grave, from crossing over the river of death.”
God is always speaking to us; the question is are we listening? Just like God had promised Israel that He would bless them if they would obey, the same is true for us. In Joel 2:12-13 (NLT), the prophet gave A Call to Repentance…
“That is why the Lord says, “Turn to me now, while there is time. Give me your hearts. Come with fasting, weeping, and mourning. Don’t tear your clothing in your grief, but tear your hearts instead.” Return to the Lord your God, for he is merciful and compassionate, slow to get angry and filled with unfailing love. He is eager to relent and not punish.”
And just a few verses late in Joel 2:28 (NLT), the Lord made this promised:
“Then, after doing all those things, I will pour out my Spirit upon all people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy. Your old men will dream dreams, and your young men will see visions.”
The amazing thing is that throughout history, God has been speaking to us, calling us back to Himself, desiring a relationship with you and I! You may be saying to yourself, these passages are all from the Old Testament well I am glad you asked. In Acts 2:17 (NLT), as Peter was addressing the people on the Day of Pentecost, he quoted Joel 2:28!
“‘In the last days,’ God says, ‘I will pour out my Spirit upon all people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy. Your young men will see visions, and your old men will dream dreams.”
I truly believe that we are living in the last days and that God is pouring out His Spirit for all who will seek Him… Today, you have the choice, will you open the book and find out for yourself!
I love the Bible and all that it offers…HOPE, LOVE and the PROMISE that God will never leave us or forsake us, as well as the truth of Romans 10:13 (NLT)…
“For “Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.””
The choice is yours!
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Today is my 45th birthday which has been quite relaxing!! For the first time since I started working, I took this day off. Not sure why, but I started thinking this year about things that I have not done before like taking off for my birthday, growing a full beard and really wanting to go to Colorado to escape the oppressive heat Texas has been under for the past few months. Well the first 2 can be checked off so I guess 2 out 3 isn’t bad.
Yesterday, a cold front came in so though I did not get to Colorado for my birthday, I am getting to enjoy some cooler temps which allowed me to go for an 11-mile bike ride, something that I have not enjoyed since the heat came in June! It got me thinking about how blessed I feel not that I have been a follow of Jesus since 1998 and how much I know that God loves me. He has blessed me so much even though for so many years I wanted nothing to do with Him! God has blessed me with a beautiful wife and (2) amazing daughters who are this Daddy’s pride and joy! I also had a great mother who sacrificed so much for our family, raising my brother, sister and I as a single mother working herself to the bone to provide for us. She passed away in 2016, but through our whole life, she taught us the value of family and about being a person of integrity; two values that I strive to embody myself and pass-on to my daughters. I would not be the man I am without her tireless efforts to model the right way to live. (If you’re are interested you can read this post called ★ Thought for the Day – Tribute to My Mom ★). Well today being my birthday and all, I have just been dwelling on the Goodness of God and how His mercy has never failed me! All my life He has been right by my side!
Psalms 139:13-18 (ESV) is so beautiful reminder of God’s omnipresence!!
“For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.
Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well. My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately woven in the depths of the earth.
Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them.
How precious to me are your thoughts, O God! How vast is the sum of them! If I would count them, they are more than the sand. I awake, and I am still with you.”
God knows me so intimately, He “knitted me together in my mother’s womb!” and “I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” He knows everything I need before I even know it and has planned out every day of my life before a single had passed!! Wow! As I type this, tears are welling up in me because of His great love for me!! Thank you, Father, for your love!! Back in May of this year my church had an amazing conference called the “Men’s Summit.”
The theme was…“Live to Know God and Make Him Known”
Which was based on 1 Corinthians 8:2-3 (ESV)…
“If anyone imagines that he knows something, he does not yet know as he ought to know. But if anyone loves God, he is known by God.”
Isn’t that incredible? If you love God, you are completely known by Him. He was there at our conception molding us within our mother’s womb and is with us every day! I am so thankful for that reality!
There is a song called “Goodness of God” from Bethel Music that I have listened to it over and over which conveys what I have been feeling.
“And all my life You have been faithful And all my life You have been so, so good With every breath that I am able Oh, I will sing of the goodness of God”
Now the second part of the Men’s Summit Theme is to “Make Him Known,” that is what this blog is all about! I write about the “goodness of God,” because no one wants to hear me sing! Hahaha! Now I am sure that there may be readers of this post that may question whether God really is faithful or good, but I can tell you with all sincerely and assurance that regardless of whether you want God in your life, He wants you! If you want to learn more you can check out this post called ★ Thought for the Day – I Hate Religion and I’m a Christian… ★
To learn the difference between a religion vs. a relationship with God through His Son Jesus. Another good way to get to know God, is to get in His Word, The Bible. Proverbs 23:12 (ESV) says:
“Apply your heart to instruction and your ear to words of knowledge.”
You cannot grow unless you are willing to apply yourself. As a result, I KNOW WHO I AM, and you can too!
I promise if you do, your life will be forever changed, and you too can feel what it is liked to be FULLY KNOWN.
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We had an early morning today getting our daughter to the airport for the first flight out. Our daughter is on her way to for a three day training camp before heading to Eswatini (formally known as Swaziland) and South Africa for a two month missions trip. As a father of a recent high school graduate (literally less than a week ago – 5/24/2019), it is hard to let my 18-year-old go off to the other side of the world over 9,000 miles away!
So when I see the words “Be Strong and Courageous” I am stretched today! Our family is going through a lot of “firsts” with our daughter this past month…first prom, first high school graduation, and now today the first flight alone in which she is travelling 719 miles away from home. As I type this, my baby girl is at the 683-mile mark…thanks to to the Flight Tracker, hahaha! For months now we have surrounded this trip in prayer and fasting, trusting that God will take care of the details but now that it is here I am struggling a bit, which is normal.
The Holy Spirit prompted me with a passage to comfort me and another man who needed some reminding too! His name was Joshua. I am going through the YouVersion Reading Plan called “The One Year® Chronological Bible” and the reading recently was from Joshua 1:6-9 (NLT) in which God was speaking to Joshua directly to encouraged him before going into the battle with the people of Jericho:
““Be strong and courageous, for you are the one who will lead these people to possess all the land I swore to their ancestors I would give them. Be strong and very courageous. Be careful to obey all the instructions Moses gave you. Do not deviate from them, turning either to the right or to the left. Then you will be successful in everything you do. STUDY THIS BOOK OF INSTRUCTION CONTINUALLY. Meditate on it day and night so you will be sure to obey everything written in it. Only then will you prosper and succeed in all you do. This is my command — be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. FOR THE LORD YOUR GOD IS WITH YOU WHEREVER YOU GO.””
Wow did I need that today!! Now these words were penned over 2,500 years ago but are still relevant for us today! I think the Old Testament gets a bad rap sometimes as being antiquated and inconsequential, however when you read Joshua 1:6-9, it is a great example not only of God’s omnipresence BUT also that we WILL face adversity and have to struggle in life EVEN with God on our side! In (4) verses God says to the newly appointed leader of the Israelite Nation, “Be strong and courageous” (3) times! That tells me that Joshua (and myself) need to work out our faith and trust God regardless of circumstances!
And how do we do that? Well that is right in the middle in verse 8, which says…
“Study this Book of Instruction continually. Meditate on it day and night so you will be sure to obey everything written in it. Only then will you prosper and succeed in all you do.”
So, the question I have for you is, are you finding yourself drowning with the stresses of life with little hope? And if so, where do you find comfort? In your twitter feed or the water cooler advice section? The passage is clear, if you want to prosper and succeed, we must be meditating on the word of God to hear God’s voice. And if you do, verse 9 brings it home with the third reminder…
“This is my command — be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the LORD your God is with you wherever you go.”
I love the image of the little girl in the cape and mask, so fearless and ready to take on the world! That is how I say my daughter today as she went through security, turned back with a smile from ear to ear and waved good-bye. My daughter never ceases to amaze me, as she steps out in faith to go on this 2-month adventure to a place she’s never been, with people she’s never met before, she is trusting that God will direct her steps to minister to people who are desperately in need physically, emotionally and spiritually. Oh, that I may I have the same boldness to share my faith boldly! And you know it does not need to be in South Africa, it can be with the person in the next cubicle or the checkout person at the supermarket or someone at the lunch table at school. The word from God in this passage is that should not let fear stop us from being a conduit for His love, mercy and forgiveness to flow to those around us.
Before I finished writing this, I received these (3) texts from my daughter that put me to ease and reminded me that God is with her wherever she goes!
Got my bag
Meeting up with two of the other girls who are already here too
Maybe today you are facing some life changes like me or a bad report from the doctor or the loss of a job, if that’s you, listen to the words of God…Be Strong. Be Courageous. Be Fearless. Be Encouraged.
Trust in Him today to carry you through. I encourage you to press into God’s word like never before to help give you strength for whatever struggle you may be facing today!
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HE IS RISEN INDEED! If you have grown up in church, you may recognize this familiar response to the statement that the pastor would greet everyone on Easter morning…
“He is Risen!”
Then the congregation would respond….
“He is Risen Indeed!”
Today is a reminder of Jesus overcoming death, of hope and new beginnings! It is a great day!! Without Easter, our faith is dead. The foundation of Christianity is that Jesus conquered death!! Three days ago on Good Friday as we remembered the day that Jesus was nailed to the cross, I was also remembering my mother as it was the 3rd anniversary of my Mom’s passing and when I looked out in the backyard I saw the rose-bush we planted in her memory in full bloom! I could not help but feel that this was God’s way of reminding me that my Mom is right there with Him and Jesus! Now you may say, well it is Springtime so of course it is in full bloom, but my impression is that my love Heavenly Father wanted to give me a sign. As life is springing up anew from its winter slumber all around, Christians paused on April 19 to remember the day that Jesus paid the ultimate price and surrendered His Will and allowed Himself to be crucified up on that cross, see John 10:18.
Romans 5:1-8 (NLT) says:
“Therefore, since we have been made right in God’s sight by faith, we have peace with God because of what Jesus Christ our Lord has done for us. Because of our faith, Christ has brought us into this place of undeserved privilege where we now stand, and we confidently and joyfully look forward to sharing God’s glory. We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation. And this hope will not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love. When we were utterly helpless, Christ came at just the right time and died for us sinners. Now, most people would not be willing to die for an upright person, though someone might perhaps be willing to die for a person who is especially good. But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners.”
I especially love verse 8!
What a beautiful picture! I want to ask you, where do you stand today with Jesus on this Easter Sunday? Is Easter about a bunny and some colored eggs or do you believe that Jesus Christ is the Messiah, the Son of God who died on a Roman cross over 2,000 years ago to save your soul from your sins?
In John 11:25-26 (NLT) it says:
“Jesus told her, “I am the resurrection and the life. Anyone who believes in me will live, even after dying. Everyone who lives in me and believes in me will never ever die. Do you believe this, Martha?”
In verse 27 Martha made this declaration…
“Yes, Lord,” she told him. “I have always believed you are the Messiah, the Son of God, the one who has come into the world from God.””
Do you still reject the truth? God has done everything He could do to restore you to Him today, you just have to make that choice whether or not you’ll receive the free great gift of grace and accept Jesus as your Savior. I pray that you will! If you would like to know how to take the next step check out this post that will lead you in a simple prayer…★ Thought for the Day – I Hate Religion and I’m a Christian… ★
“The Holy Spirit is the divine author of all Scripture. If this doctrine is true, then the implications are so profound and far-reaching that every part of our lives should be affected.”
I wholeheartedly believe that there should be evidence in your life that you are pursuing God. Another way to refer to it is “fruit.” If we are truly pursuing God and trying to be more like Jesus, then we should see The Fruit of the Spirit manifested in ever-increasing amounts. Galatians 5:22-25 (NASB) says:
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. Now those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live by the Spirit, let us also walk by the Spirit.”
Each weekday I have the privilege to be a part of Bible Studies in which I try to challenge the men at the table to press in and seek to gain knowledge about the faith that they profess. I have been having conversations with them in the past 6 months asking, “What do you think of the Holy Spirit?” The answers have been quite amazing and revealing on how the devil has blinded believers in regards to the Holy Spirit’s role in our life. God has been stirring in my heart that belief in the Trinity is paramount to the health of the church and the growth of each believer. I recently finished a devotional from Max Lucado in which he made this point about the Holy Spirit:
“If you want to see believers hem, haw, and search for words, just ask, “Who is the Holy Spirit?” Most believers understand the Father and the Son, but they are perplexed about the role of the Holy Spirit in their lives. It’s as if they’ve settled for a two-thirds God.” (From the YouVersion reading plan ‘Unshakable Hope: Building Our Lives On The Promises Of God’.)
What do you think? Do you believe 2 out 3 is enough? “Are you settling for a two-thirds God,” that loving God and accepting Jesus as your Lord and Savior is enough?? It’s almost like people are living with an understanding of 1 Corinthians 8:6 (NLT) only:
“But for us, There is one God, the Father, by whom all things were created, and for whom we live. And there is one Lord, Jesus Christ, through whom all things were created, and through whom we live.”
While belief in the Father and Son is critical, we must learn that about the 3rd person in the Trinity who is equally important. In the post called ★ “Back to the Basics” – Whose Body Are You A Part Of? ★, we unpacked that the church is ONE body and that we are all baptized by one Spirit into one body, (see 1 Corinthians 12:12-13). The Holy Spirit is part of the Triune or Trinity; consisting of God the Father, Jesus and the Holy Spirit who are all omnipotent (all-powerful), omniscient (all-knowing), and omnipresent (ever-present always).
It would be good to read that post in tandem with this one as we will not cover the “Gifts of the Holy Spirit” at all as we covered that already in that post, other than to say how important it is that we operate in them! (See 1 Corinthians 12:7-11 for the list of gifts available). But I think that there are many who claim to know the Holy Spirit yet are living a life of powerlessness. Francis Chan referred to the Holy Spirit as the “Forgotten God.” He said:
So, the first question I have for you…Do you know that the Holy Spirit is a person? He is not some vapor or an “it,” as were some of the responses to my question. Some guys straight out said they did not know much about the Holy Spirit at all. And some beliefs expressed were not biblically based but rather what a denomination taught them. The Holy Spirit really is the Unsung Hero of the Trinity. Now you may think that that is a leap but by the end of this series I pray that your mind will be opened to how amazing the He is. There are so many instances that the Holy Spirit does not receive the praise for all that He does in our lives and worse than that, He is oftentimes called an “it” or stiff-armed or rejected as something “weird” and to be avoided. The funny thing is, if people just opened the Bible, they would see how many references that clearly show that the Holy Spirit is indeed a person. For me, I love John 14:15-17 (NLT) when Jesus promised to send the Holy Spirit to the His Disciples:
“If you love me, obey my commandments. And I will ask the Father, and He will give you another Advocate, who will never leave you. He is the Holy Spirit, who leads into all truth. The world cannot receive Him, because it isn’t looking for Him and doesn’t recognize Him. But you know Him, because He lives with you now and later will be in you.”
Look at how many times Jesus references the Holy Spirit as “He” or “Him.” I was just reading the first book of the Bible and look at WHO is mentioned in verse 2!
1 “In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. 2 The earth was formless and empty, and darkness covered the deep waters. And the Spirit of God was hovering over the surface of the waters.” Genesis 1:1-2 (NLT)
I have read those verses over and over and until now I have never noticed that the Holy Spirit is mentioned at the very beginning of The Account of Creation! And then in Genesis 1:26a (NLT) it says:
“Then God said, “Let us make human beings in OUR image, to be like us.””
I have always read verse 26 as God and Jesus, BUT how can you ignore that the Holy Spirit is mentioned long before Jesus is. We are made in the image of the Holy Trinity, including the Holy Spirit.When we push away the Holy Spirit or refuse to invite Him into our life, it is just like rejecting God the Father or God the Son because we were made in God the Holy Spirit’s image too! Why is this important? Because when we push away Holy Spirit, we are disconnecting ourselves from the power source. In Acts 1:8 (NLT), just before Jesus ascended to Heaven, He said to the disciples:
“But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes upon you. And you will be my witnesses, telling people about me everywhere—in Jerusalem, throughout Judea, in Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.”
The Holy Spirit is a gift to us from God the Father for us to help us to tell everyone about Jesus to spread the Good News. Before Jesus left He also said in John 16:7-14 (NLT)…
“But in fact, it is best for you that I go away, because if I don’t, the Advocate won’t come. If I do go away, then I will send Him to you. And when He comes, He will convict the world of its sin, and of God’s righteousness, and of the coming judgment. The world’s sin is that it refuses to believe in me. Righteousness is available because I go to the Father, and you will see me no more. Judgment will come because the ruler of this world has already been judged.
There is so much more I want to tell you, but you can’t bear it now. When the Spirit of truth comes, He will guide you into all truth. He will not speak on his own but will tell you what He has heard. He will tell you about the future. He will bring me glory by telling you whatever He receives from me.”
Advocate means “a person who pleads on someone else’s behalf.” The Holy Spirit intercedes and works on our behalf to help understand God’s Will for our life. Robert Morris said it this way:
Jesus said in John 14:26 (ESV)…
“But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, He will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you.”
The Holy Spirit offers so much to anyone who will just ask. Unfortunately, so many Christians are ignorant of all that He can provide and have believed the lie that then enemy saturated the church into believing that you should stay as far away as possible because the Holy Spirit is “out there” for those crazy believers.
Jesus taught about prayer in Luke 11:1-12, after His disciples asked Him to teach them how to pray. Part of that teaching is a prayer referred to as “The Lord’s Prayer” which is a great model prayer for every believer to go to the Father. Interestingly though as we have seen time and time again, the Holy Spirit is quickly mentioned right after Jesus concludes with the prayer in Luke 11:13 (ESV)…
“If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!”
Right there it shows that we need to Go to God the Father and ask for the Holy Spirit in our life! I will close with this last thought. If you were to survey Christians with this question, “What is your purpose here on Earth?” Some common responses may be:
To glorify God in all that I say and do.
To seek first His righteousness above all else!
To become more and more like Jesus.
To make a difference for the Kingdom of God.
I dare say that all of that can be can be accomplished by asking the Holy Spirit to be a vital part of your day to day life. My word for 2019 that I felt impressed upon me was “Transformed.” As we were going through 2 Corinthians in December with one of the Bible Studies, we came up Chapter 3 verses 17-18 (NLT)
“For the Lord is the Spirit, and wherever the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. So, all of us who have had that veil removed can see and reflect the glory of the Lord. And the Lord—who is the Spirit—makes us more and more like Him as we are changed into his glorious image.”
That is so good! What great insight to see the significance that the Holy Spirit plays in accomplishing God’s Will while honoring Him and witnessing to the world. Do you want to know how we become more like Jesus? Well the Apostle Paul just showed us, though the Holy Spirit! My prayer for 2019 and I hope yours to is to be changed more and more into His glorious image! I want the faith I have in God to spread far and wide! Lord may I be a useful conduit of your love, grace and forgiveness to flow to everyone I encounter! Holy Spirit please give me power to be more and more like Jesus! Amen!
I love this comic! The satirical truth of this resonates in my spirit as so many activities fill our calendar, it really is hard to fit everything in those 25 boxes. And that is the muse for this Thought. Three years ago God placed on my heart to study the Christmas Story in greater detail than I have ever done before. It led me into a series of posts that lasted for 25 days, exploring the “Reasons” that we should be “Thankful” during the Christmas Advent Season; while at the same time, delving into the all-too-familiar stories that have become commonplace in order to gain a fresh perspective on the birth of Christ! It was an amazing endeavor, one which meant a lot to me in my personal walk with Jesus who truly is the Reason for the Season!
As part of the series, I posted this blog called ★ Day 04 – Reason for the Season – Christmas Consumerism ★ encompassed a post from my daughter’s Instagram page called Undeserved Grace that she posted 4 years ago. She is now 18 years old and in her senior year of High School with many decisions before as well as a long list of things to do to prepare for the next season of life. The past 6 months has been filled with filling out applications, visiting colleges and lots and lots of discussions of what to do next as well as finals and end the semester papers.
As we have been incredibly busy coming into this season it got me thinking about the other “to do lists” that we have feverishly been trying to cross off…
What a second…that is the idealized list that we all wish that we were concerned with right? But the real list looks more like this…
…In an effort to get the house decorated, trimming the Christmas tree, shopping for gifts and making the endless lists of things that MUST GET DONE (take a breath…), I wonder has the reason for this season been lost or should I say Compartmentalized? It may be cliché, but the birth of Jesus Christ is the reason for the Season! Now there certainly is nothing wrong with family traditions and enjoying the holidays BUT when Jesus is reduced to just being mentioned on one day or maybe it is only the obligatory hour in church then something is seriously wrong. Galatians 4:4-5 (ESV) tells us…
“But when the fullness of time had come, God sent forth his Son, born of woman, born under the law, to redeem those who were under the law, so that we might receive adoption as sons.”
Because of Jesus’ birth more than 2,000 years we have access to be adopted in family of God. That is what the 25th of December and all the preparation should be about. Let me ask you when was the last time you read the Christmas story? Part of the preparations that God placed on my heart was to not let the Christmas season go by without reading about the birth of Christ in totality, here are the major stories:
As you read through the miraculous circumstances that brought about the birth of the Savior of the world, if Jesus is just a small or insignificant aspect of your life that you would…
…STOP COMPARTMENTALIZING CHRIST IN YOUR LIFE, and fully embrace the greatest gift we could ever receive! He should not be relegated to a month or day or hour but should be a part of everyday. Whether it is having morning coffee with my wife or driving my youngest daughter to school or having or sitting down for dinner with the family after a long day at work, Jesus wants to be part of every aspect of my life. My prayer for you is that you would experience that this Christmas season and that the only thing that you are truly concerned with is how to celebrate that God gave us the gift of His Son Jesus!
“For this is how God loved the world: He gave his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16
Merry Christmas and may the Joy of Christ fill your hearts and bless you!
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In preparation for this post I stumbled onto this TIME Magazine Cover with this Tagline: “Why Mom Liked You Most” which I think many people could resonate with. I know I always thought my brother and sister got the biggest slice of cake! Hahaha! In the post called ★ Thought for the Day – The Family Juggernaut ★ we talked about how our family of origin can have a serious effect on who we become. I’d highly recommend you read it first because today’s Thought will build upon that foundation. In the post I shared how my Family Juggernaut played a significant role in my development and that it was wrecked by neglect, alcoholism, drug use, adultery, verbal and physical abuse, all by the time I reached 5 years old! Fast forward 41 years to April 2016, the day after my mom’s funeral when my brother and I had a conversation that would change the trajectory of our lives. But before I delve into that, I wanted to talk some more about Jesus’ Family Situation that we discussed in The Family Juggernaut post. Last time we examined how Jesus’ brothers did not believe He was the Messiah and what that must have been like for Jesus to not have their support. Today I want to look at the issues between Jesus and his brothers from their perspective. I was watching this video clip from Michael Jr. called “What if you were a younger sibling of Jesus?” and almost died laughing.
It’s a hysterical parody on what it might have been like for James to live with the Savior of the World and grow up as Jesus’ little brother. Michael Jr. jested that:
“James had problems. He would go to his parents and you know what they’d say…‘What would Jesus do?’ Then they gave him a bracelet.”
Hahaha! Now I did not grow up with the Messiah, but I am all too familiar with growing up in my big brother’s shadow. He was always the life of the party, the one that was the center of attention. Now I may be dating myself here, but have you ever seen the TV show “Everybody Loves Raymond?” Although Raymond was the younger sibling, the comparison is identical to how I felt growing up, that my brother was center of our family just like Raymond was the center of the show. But in that conversation with my brother I discovered how wrong my perspective was. Though I believed that he was Raymond and everybody’s favorite, he believed that the opposite was true! His view of our family dynamic was that I was the favored son of our mother. Guess sibling rivalry is alive and well. But that fateful day just a little over 2 years ago changed our relationship forever! I am reminded of a quote from Steven Furtick’s book “Crash the Chatterbox”:
“The voice you believe will determine the future you experience.”
See my brother and I listened to the chatterbox (aka Satan), and completely bought into the lies that we are not worthy of our mother’s love as much as the other one was. I had preconceived notions of him and his motives, as he did of me as well. That day though we were able to clear the air and God began a healing work through that one conversation!
It really is true what Theodore Roosevelt said:
Absolutely nothing good comes from comparing ourselves to others. It got me thinking about how we view our relationship with our Heavenly Father…Does God play favorites? What do you think? Do you think that He values some people over others? Romans 2:9-11 (NLT) gives some insight…
“9 There will be trouble and calamity for everyone who keeps on doing what is evil—for the Jew first and also for the Gentile.
10 But there will be glory and honor and peace from God for all who do good—for the Jew first and also for the Gentile.
11 For God does not show favoritism.”
Does this seem to be an oxymoron? How does verse 11 go with verses 9 and 10 when Paul says “for the Jew first and also for the Gentile?”At first I thought it was showing favoritism that the Jews were over the Gentles but I learned a valuable lesson after I sent this question to my Pastor and some buddies. You cannot “a la carte” the Bible. It is very dangerous to grab 2 or 3 verses and develop a belief system from a small passage. Context is everything! My pastor responded back with this great insight…
“After doing a little looking at the text. Romans 2:1-16 is speaking of Gods judgment. The statement “first for the Jew…then to the Gentile…” is not meant to imply a special consideration or favoritism. But rather in light of God’s standard of impartiality, it emphasizes that the ENTIRE human race is dealt with by God. In the way of His judgement both Jew and Greek (all humans) will be dealt with and there will be no favoritism shown. The Jew would have thought that God may not have judgment on them…the same as everyone else because of they were much more “religious”. But God is not partial in His judgment…all will be judged equally according to His Word.”
A light bulb went off for me when I read that because I know that God loves all people and that “He does not want anyone to be destroyed, but wants everyone to repent,” (see 2 Peter 3:8-10,) and be with Him in heaven for all eternity. So if we go back to verse 11, it cannot be any clearer…“For God does not show favoritism.” Besides not picking and choosing a couple of scriptures to form an opinion from, I also was reminded that before I start down a “rabbit trail” of thought, I must look at the Bible in totality – BOTH Old and New Testament to see what the entire book has to say. I recently heard Robert Morris say:
“Though the Bible was written by (39) men, it has One Author.”
That author of course being God Almighty, creator of Heaven and Earth! So let’s do some bible drilling…
Deuteronomy 10:17 (NLT) says:
“For the Lord your God is the God of gods and Lord of lords. He is the great God, the mighty and awesome God, who shows no partiality and cannot be bribed.”
God is supreme above all and has no favorites, nor can He be swayed by anything we may say or do or how much we give to the church. We cannot buy God’s love or our way into Heaven. Another Old Testament passage comes from Job 34:19 (NKJV) which is especially poignant as the man Job who was referred to by God as “blameless—a man of complete integrity who feared God and stayed away from evil” (see Job 1:1); BUT yet he went through unbelievable trials. In verse 19 in speaking about God’s character, Job said:
“Yet He is not partial to princes, Nor does He regard the rich more than the poor; For they are all the work of His hands.”
“Then Peter replied, “I see very clearly that God shows no favoritism. In every nation He accepts those who fear Him and do what is right. This is the message of Good News for the people of Israel—that there is peace with God through Jesus Christ, who is Lord of all.”
This was a turning point for Peter as Acts 10:9-33 records, he was given (3) visions from God about eating animals that up until that time, the Jewish people held as unclean and taboo to eat. This was God’s way of telling Peter that the Gentiles (or non-Jews) were worthy to receive the Gospel and that he was to go and minister to a Gentile man named Cornelius. And in fact the Gentiles received the Holy Spirit for the first time (see Acts 10:37-48). The Jews were the first to have faith in the One True God, the Gentiles are like the second born into the family to receive salvation. The Apostle Paul reminds us in Titus 2:11 (NLT),
“For the grace of God has been revealed, bringing salvation to all people.”
Unlike how my brother and I viewed each other, God is very clear all through the Bible that we are all worthy to receive the undeserved grace of God. I told you at the beginning of this post that the trajectory of my relationship with my brother was changed by that one conversation. God not only healed the hard feelings we held towards each other due to perceived favoritism, but we have grown closer together even though 1,069 miles separate us. I shared in the post ★ Thought for the Day – Community That Matters ★ that I host bible studies in my house in Texas, Monday through Friday at 5:00 AM. Since June of this year after my brother and his family visited and attended those studies, he has continued to participate in the bible studies through the use of technology, joining remotely multiple times a week from North Carolina! And through that time, God is working a miracle in our relationship to eradicate the damage that the devil did over the past 20 years! I will close with a passage that my brother and I recently read together from Romans 10:9-13 (NLT):
“If you openly declare that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is by believing in your heart that you are made right with God, and it is by openly declaring your faith that you are saved.
As the Scriptures tell us, ‘Anyone who trusts in Him will never be disgraced.’ Jew and Gentile are the same in this respect. They have the same Lord, who gives generously to all who call on Him. For ‘Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.’”
I want to encourage you to do an honest self-evaluation about your relationships. Are you like me, that you have a strained relationship with a brother, or another family member or friend? Then reconcile it today! You will not regret it! I cannot tell you how blessed I feel that after being distant from my brother for so long, today we are closer than ever! And secondly, if you are far from God, or never accepted Jesus, go back to Romans 10:9-13 confess that Jesus is Lord of your life and accept the free gift of grace that is available to everyone!
I cannot believe it has already been a month since I started to write this blog after seeing the movie “Paul, Apostle of Christ.” Life has been busy to say the least, but as I am thrilled to share this post which has become a sort of mantra or rallying cry for me! If you have not seen “Paul, Apostle of Christ,” I highly recommend you watch it as soon as it hits Redbox or when you can stream it because it was absolutely amazing, one of the best movies I have ever seen! Just so you understand me, I don’t say that lightly as I am very leery of Christian films, either because of the cheesy acting/writing or because it does not stay true to what the Bible says; but with this latest release from “Affirm Firms,” I left the theater phenomenally impressed! Great acting, beautiful cinematography and most importantly of all…it is biblically accurate in the telling of the persecution of the early church. Of course there are characters and plot lines not found in the Bible in order to carry the story or fill in the gaps but was done in such a way that honors scripture. Anyhow, it is a must see! As the movie concluded, James Faulkner (who played Paul), quoted 2 Timothy 4:7 (NLT) which is where I wanted to start our Thought for the Day off with…
In the backdrop of this brilliant film, these words penned almost 2,000 years ago came to life like they never have before! As I was telling the guys about what God was speaking to me in how Paul suffered for the Gospel and the impact he has had on the world in my Tuesday morning Bible Study, one of the guys posed this question:
“What will people say at my funeral about me? On my death bed, will I have regrets?”
He said that he wrote his obituary in response to this question, which at first may seem a little morbid, but then I started to think about it. As we discussed this, of course everyone at the table agreed that they would want people to think well of them and have found memories, but I followed up with that consensus to ask: Are we living a life that will render those results? So for me, first and foremost, I would want people to say that I was a Man of God who pursued to embody what Paul said in Titus 1:6-9 that leaders in the church should. I would hope that I would be spoken of that no matter where I went, I was a representative of Jesus Christ (as Colossians 3:15-17 instructs) and ordered my life in service to the Kingdom of God in which the fruits of the Spirit were evident (See Galatians 5:22-23). I would also want to be remembered as a man who strove to be a Godly husband and father to his two daughters and would say that I did my very best to follow Ephesians 5:28-33 and Ephesians 6:4, (which I know I still have work to do). Okay enough about my obituary, time to ask some questions…Have you ever wondered…
“Why am I here on earth? What is my purpose here?”
Of course you have, we all have at some point. It is a question that people have pondered throughout the ages. But I hope to press in a little deeper than the initial question and expose how the enemy will deceive us and distract us from the initial response we may give. But before I do, let’s ask you some more questions.
Do you think you are here to amass great wealth, live in a luxurious house and drive a fancy new car?
Or is it to maximize your stock portfolio and be setup up for life?
Do you long for the day that you can travel the globe or sit on a beach without a care in the world?
I dare say we have all have pursued for all of this and a lot more. Are we trading the eternal for that which will rust and fade away which we cannot take with us when we die?Now I am only 43 years old, but in that relatively short time, I have come to realize that life is for much more than financial security or the accumulation of material possessions or to reach a life of ease. It’s about people and how can I make a difference in their lives. Revolutionary thought? No. But my prayer is that God will cultivate in your heart a fresh awareness of other people’s needs, and that the Holy Spirit would inspire and move you to develop a new plan of action about how you can impact the people in your life whether at home, school, work, or where you play. My daughter made this edit after a mission trip of this quote that she heard from a speaker there which I believe perfectly captures the point:
The answer to this will show whether you are “fighting the good fight” for the Kingdom of God as Paul declared, or if perhaps complacency has creeped in. Long ago I heard the expression that you should “leave people better than you found them,” which I see as much more than a cute cliché, but as something that God has called us to be. When I was meeting with a brother in Christ for a Bible Study on a different day, he shared his life verse with me that is from Acts 20:24 (NLT) which Paul make this incredible declaration:
“But my life is worth nothing to me unless I use it for finishing the work assigned me by the Lord Jesus–the work of telling others the Good News about the wonderful grace of God.”
This so resonated in my spirit because of this question which God has been stirring in me…
“Are You a Plug or a Conduit?”
A plug is interesting in that, it is both a noun and a verb. Merriam-Webster defines it as:
A conduit on the other hand is defined several ways:
So within that context, I want to be a conduit for God’s purpose to flow through me to all those who I come in contact with. When I meet Jesus in heaven I want to hear “well done, good and faithful servant.” (See Matthew 25:21). I agree with the Apostle Paul that “my life is worth nothing to me unless I use it for finishing the work assigned me.” The last thing I ever want to do is plug up God’s grace, love and truth to reach those who are in need. In 1 Corinthians 3:10-15 Paul warns about the Day of Judgement when our works will be thrown in the fire and the value of what we do hear will be revealed. In verse 13 we are told:
“But on the judgment day, fire will reveal what kind of work each builder has done. The fire will show if a person’s work has any value.”
I know that much of what I have done before knowing Jesus as my Lord and Savior will be burned up but what a waste if a lot of my work since receiving the free gift of salvation and having the truth that can save others is burned because I have squandered my time here on earth. Now am I saying if you have a nice home or car or a lot of money in your bank account that you are plugging up what God wants to do…ABSOLUTELY NOT! My point, and what God has impressed on me is…
Are you using those resources He has blessed you with to bless others? For instance, you could host or lead a bible study in that spacious home. You could drive an elderly or disabled person in that nice car to church or the grocery store. Or you could use the monetary blessing to help the less fortunate or go on a missions trip to help those in need.
“All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is our merciful Father and the source of all comfort. He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us.”
When God sees that we can be trusted to share with others what He has done for us, then He will continue to increase the blessings so that we can bless others even more! It is a tangible way we can be a conduit for something that truly matters! But living the Christian life is incredibly difficult even when we are plugged into the power source and chasing after God. (Forgive the mixed metaphor but I could not help myself!) The Apostle Paul who was a Pharisee, extremely knowledgeable in religious law and fiercely adhered to all that was practiced reveled in being a persecutor of The Way (what the early believers in Christ were referred to). BUT GOD interceded and redeemed Paul from his self-righteous life and transformed him into one of the Pillars of the early church, authoring (under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit) more books of the New Testament than anyone else. The man who tried to destroy the Church of Jesus Christ, ended up being used by God to provide the framework for what the Christian life should be. Now oftentimes, people who “get saved,” who are trying to pursue a relationship with Jesus, believe that their past life is an anchor or impediment to what God can do through them but just the opposite is true! Your past is really a springboard to initiate your ministry opportunities. God is in the business of turning Past mistakes into Purpose!
In the case of Paul’s transformation, God used Paul’s zealousness and training in the law to be one of the most effective conduits for His love, grace and truth to flow to the entire world! Over 2,000 years later, people around the globe are still reading the words he penned through the inspiration of the Holy Spirit! According to Wycliffe Global Alliance some form of Scripture has been translated in more than 3300 languages!
When we trust in God and make ourselves available, that is when we will see His purpose and plan activated so that we can operate in our fullest potential! I will close with this final thought from 2 Corinthians 2:14-15 (NLT) of the Apostle Paul:
“But thank God! He has made us his captives and continues to lead us along in Christ’s triumphal procession. Now he uses us to spread the knowledge of Christ everywhere, like a sweet perfume. Our lives are a Christ-like fragrance rising up to God. But this fragrance is perceived differently by those who are being saved and by those who are perishing.”
Let your life be a sweet perfume and allow these words to spur you on to be the most availability conduit ever!
So what did you think of the movie Samson that was released on last month ago today? Unfortunately, I did not get to see it in time before it left the theaters. It is so sad how fast a faith-based movie debuts and then is pulled from the big screen. Guess I will have to catch it on Redbox. I was really looking forward to it too because I have been doing a lot of study recently on the well-known Bible character. In our Lifegroup we covered the life of this Samson who very well could be considered a superhero which from the previews of the movie, the film makers sure played up the superhuman strength. In the book of Judges, Chapters 13 through 16 tells the story of what is known about Samson who has been featured in many a Sunday School Lesson and Children’s Book. But let me ask you, what do you know about this epic Old Testament Hero? For me, I thought I knew about Samson, but after studying these (4) short chapters I was shocked to see that there was much more to him. Sure everyone knows about the supernatural strength, the long hair, and the overactive libido that led to the haircut, capture and death, but what else do you know?
As I studied, I learned that Samson was called for a very special purpose…to deliver the nation of Israel from the oppression of the Philistines, an enemy that they continually battled. He was also a Judge over the Nation of Israel for (20) years. Now if you are wondering what that means, Judges 2:18 (NLT) defines the role:
“Whenever the Lord raised up a judge over Israel, He was with that judge and rescued the people from their enemies throughout the judge’s lifetime. For the Lord took pity on his people, who were burdened by oppression and suffering.”
In addition to that, as I read Judges 13:3-5 I found out that there was an angelic proclamation of Samson’s birth. That was a surprise to me. I did not recall that so I did some research and found that Samson was (1) of only (6) people to have an angel announce their birth. The others were:
Ishmael, whose parents were Hagar and Abraham – See Genesis 16:11
John the Baptist, whose parents were Zechariah and Elizabeth – See Luke 1:13-15
And of course Jesus, whose parents were Mary and Joseph – See Luke 1:30-33
In Samson’s case, the Angel proclaimed to Manoah and his wife that their son was destined to be a Nazarite. Now if you are not familiar with what that is…A Nazarite is defined in Numbers 6:1-21, in which a person vows for a certain length of time that they will:
Avoid contact with the dead.
Abstain from wine and strong drink.
Refrain from cutting their hair.
The difference in Samson’s case was that this vow would be for a lifetime. And so he made it onto another list. In the Bible there are only (3) people mentioned that took the Nazarite vow for life:
Fun fact, the only one of these men actually called a “Nazarite” was Samson. So why am I sharing all of this? Because NO ONE IN ALL of the Bible had SO MUCH STACKED IN HIS FAVOR and yet when you read WHAT Samson did and WHY he did it, all I can say is WHAT WASTED POTENTIAL!I asked the people in my Lifegroup to come up with some Life Lessons about the hero who is so widely taught about on Sunday mornings. Overwhelmingly, no one could come up with any positive actions that Samson did. So here are some thoughts I had of what I have learned of “what not to do” from the Life of Samson.
Lessons from the Life of Samson:
Don’t break your vows/promises to God. Samson continually gave into his emotions of selfishness, anger and lust. And ultimately broke all (3) of the Nazarite vows – he ate honey out of a dead lion’s carcass (see Judges 14:8-9), he threw a feast which customarily included alcohol (see Judges 14:10), and told the secret to his strength which lead to the history making haircut (see Judges 16:17-19). What Samson desired ultimately was more important than the destiny that God blessed him with!
Guard your eyes and heart from desiring what it is not good or safe for you.Samson chased after every detestable thing which had disastrous results. Samson allowed his selfishness, anger and lust to run amuck that caused an enormous amount of suffering for those closest to him, and led to his death.
Don’t include others in your sin. Samson involved his mother and father in his sin of eating the honey from the dead carcass of the lion he killed unbeknownst to them. If we call ourselves a child of God or a Christian or a Christ Follower, we must be very careful that we don’t cause others to sin as a result of example or in Samson’s case through deception. And that leads to life lesson #4…
Listen to your parents/Godly counsel. Samson could be the poster child for not being “unequally yoked.” (See2 Corinthians6:14-16).In Judges14:2 (ESV) we first see Samson’s inability to control himself…
“Then he came up and told his father and mother, “I saw one of the daughters of the Philistines at Timnah. Now get her for me as my wife.””
And that refusal to submit to authority set the tone for how he would live his life! Samson wanted what he wanted and chased after it regardless of the consequences. His parents objected to the wedding but he forward with the planning anyway. And the sad part, in the end he did not even get the woman because of Samson’s anger over the betrayal of her giving away the answer to his riddle. See Judges 14:10-20 which leads us to our next life lesson…
Guard your anger. Samson allowed his rage to dominate his life and in the end, he lost everything. Instead of caring for God’s people and fighting for Israel, Samson time and time again allowed his anger to rule his emotions resulting in much pain.
As part of the engagement, Samson threw a week-long party leading up to the wedding. During the feasting, Samson lost a bet over a riddle and ended up killing (30) innocent Philistines to settle then wager. He went back home to mommy and daddy and so his finance was given away in marriage to Samson’s best man.
When Samson found this out, he tied up (300) foxes and set their tails on fire and burned up all the grain fields of the Philistines. But that overreaction resulted his ex-fiancé and her father being burned alive and eventually severe consequences on the Nation of Israel.
As you grow in the Lord, stay humble and watch out for the sin of pride creeping in. Samson completely lost sight of his purpose as he believed more in himself than in the God who gave him the great calling to be Israel’s deliver! Deuteronomy8:17-18(ESV) warns…
“Beware lest you say in your heart, ‘My power and the might of my hand have gotten me this wealth.’ You shall remember the Lord your God, for it is he who gives you power to get wealth, that he may confirm his covenant that he swore to your fathers, as it is this day.”
He trusted on his own strength to solve all problems and thus took God for granted which is ironic because it was God who gave Samson the supernatural strength to do everything he did.
Keep an attitude of gratitude.In Judges 15:16-17Samson boasted and took credit initially for killing 1,000 Philistines with the jawbone of a donkey. Then in Judges 15:18 (NLT) it says:
“Samson was now very thirsty, and he cried out to the Lord, ‘You have accomplished this great victory by the strength of your servant. Must I now die of thirst and fall into the hands of these pagans?’”
His response was more like a spoiled brat than a great mighty man of valor.
If you play with fire you’re going to get burned! (See Proverbs 6:23-29). Samson consistently made the wrong choice when it came to the women he got involved with.
We already discussed the Philistine woman at Timnah and the consequences that ensued.
When Samson was with the prostitute in Judges 16:1, it says in verse 2 that the Gazites:
“surrounded the place and set an ambush for him all night at the gate of the city.”
Then of course there is Delilah. Which leads us to the last life lesson…
Lust is not Love.Samson attached himself to the wrong people. In Judges chapter 16 it talks about how Samson “feel in love” with Delilah and how she kept trying to determine the source of Samson’s strength because the Philistines promised to pay here 1,100 pieces of silver to betray him! Judges 16:18-19 (NLT) recalls…
“Delilah realized he had finally told her the truth, so she sent for the Philistine rulers. “Come back one more time,” she said, “for he has finally told me his secret.” So the Philistine rulers returned with the money in their hands. Delilah lulled Samson to sleep with his head in her lap, and then she called in a man to shave off the seven locks of his hair. In this way she began to bring him down, and his strength left him.”
Steven Furtick made this powerful point about how Samson traded his purpose for passionate encounters with the very enemy he was supposed to be delivering His people from…
I love that question…”Are you stable in your emotions?” Samson clearly wasn’t as he played with fire sleeping with the enemy, fully knowing that Delilah was going to betray him and yet he gave away the secret to his strength!
God can use your disobedience for good. Charles Stanley had this great life lesson on Judges 14:4…
And to add to Charles Stanley point, at the end of Samson’s life that, Judges 16:28-30 (ESV) tells us:
“Then Samson called to the Lord and said, “O Lord God, please remember me and please strengthen me only this once, O God, that I may be avenged on the Philistines for my two eyes.” And Samson grasped the two middle pillars on which the house rested, and he leaned his weight against them, his right hand on the one and his left hand on the other. And Samson said, “Let me die with the Philistines.” Then he bowed with all his strength, and the house fell upon the lords and upon all the people who were in it. So the dead whom he killed at his death were more than those whom he had killed during his life.”
Now every Sunday School class heralds the epic death of Samson but look at the underlined words. Samson did not say strengthen men to strike a heavy blow on the enemy of your people, he said strengthen that “I may be avenged on the Philistines for my two eyes.” But nonetheless God used Samson’s “disobedience for the good of His people!”
As I complied this list, and saw how Samson threw away a great legacy to indulge his carnal desires and unleash revenge; the one word to that came to mind to describe Samson was not the typical Sunday School adjective like cunning, unique or strong…But rather UNSTABLE! He was controlled by his flesh and as a result many people were hurt by his childish and selfish decisions. That was the muse for this Thought, the reality that Samson was not strong at all, but weak! Instead of walking with God, he followed his flesh! I will close with this great summation of Samson’s life in a sentence…
OUCH! That hurts but is also so true! I want to leave you with this question to ruminate over…”
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Two years ago God placed on my heart to study the Christmas Story in greater detail than I have ever done before. It led me into a series of posts that lasted for 25 days, exploring the “Reasons” that we should be “Thankful” during the Christmas Advent Season; while at the same time, delving into the all-too-familiar stories that have become commonplace in order to gain a fresh perspective on the birth of Christ! It was an amazing endeavor, one which meant a lot to me in my personal walk with Jesus who truly is the Reason for the Season!
As part of the series, I posted this blog called ★ Day 07 – Reason for the Season – Unwavering Acceptance ★ of how incredible Joseph, the fiancé of Mary and eventual stepfather of Jesus was to accept his small, but integral part of the birth of Christ. I was just reading this devotional called “Advent Adoration” by Jon Guerra who made this revealing statement about the life of Joseph:
“Mary is the one of whom the prophet testified. Jesus will save people from their sins. Those are gigantic destinies. But what about Joseph? Interestingly, there is nothing about his own life, his own impact. It’s as if his legacy is to be bound up in the life of these two: the virgin and her son.”
Have you ever thought about that? What about Joseph? How did he feel but all of this? Not many people give him much thought, including the Bible which has very little about this man who God deemed worthy to be the stepfather to His Son. Joseph has no place in the Gospel of Mark or John. In the Gospel of Luke he is only mentioned a couple of times. It is only in Matthew that we find any information about this incredible man (see Matthew 1:18-25 and Mathew 2:13-23), which is not a lot. In the Christmas Story, Joseph is the unsung hero that handles all the logistics of getting Mary to Bethlehem and finding lodging for her to have the baby. Then when their lives were in danger, Joseph led them to safety to Egypt while Herod was alive. And then he was responsible for bringing them out of Egypt to Nazareth. Nowhere in the story does he get any recognition and once they moved to Nazareth he is only mentioned one more time in Luke 2:41-52. That’s just crazy to me! As I was thinking about this humble carpenter a question came to mind…What if Joseph had said no?
None of this would have been possible if Joseph had hardened his heart. If you are not familiar with that phrase, it simply means to turn off your emotions and stop feeling kind or loving towards someone.
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I love “what if” stories and how they examine how different life would be if one thing was changed. What if…when the Angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream he refused to be a part of the plan and closed his heart to what God wanted to do through him? I don’t think anyone would have blamed him if he had. I mean what would you do if the woman you were betrothed to showed up pregnant saying that an angel visited her and that she was carrying God’s Son who was the long-awaited Messiah? That is a lot to take in! Nothing could have prepared him for that news! As Joseph was faced with a very pregnant fiancé which he had not part of and all of his plans for the future were ruined, he could have yielded to doubt and speculation, but instead Joseph accepted God’s call on his life.
Maybe you are like Joseph and life has not gone the way you had expected whether that be the loss of a loved one, a physical illness or a betrayal from someone you trusted. Maybe there is not much happening right now to be joyful about and maybe the last thing you want to do is celebrate the birth of God’s Son because of how hopeless your situation is. I would like to encourage you today that you have a choice just like Joseph…you can allow circumstances to rob your joy or you can look up to a Heavenly Father who wants so much more for your life!
God has a gift for you but it is up to you whether or not you will receive it! In John 10:10 Jesus reveals what that gift is:
“The thief [the devil] does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life and that they may have it more abundantly.”
If this Christmas season you find yourself alone and hopeless, feeling as if you do not belong, KNOW THIS…Jesus came to give us not only life, but Life in ABUNDANCE…the offer is open to all who will receive the free gift of salvation if you will trust Him today! The Salvation God provided through His Son is for everyone!
This Offer NEVER Ends!! Get your life on the right path for FREE when you accept Jesus Christ as your savior.
Fine Print: If you are ready to accept Jesus, here is a simple prayer to pray…
Lord I am a sinner. I have tried to run my life and failed, I cannot do it on my own. I need a savior. Please wash me, cleanse me, and create in me a new heart. I am sorry for my sins and I believe that Jesus died as the payment for those sins. Take my life, I give it to you. In Jesus’ name I pray, Amen!
If you prayed that in earnest, I have great news! You are now a son or daughter of God! And I would love to help you along in your decision, just contact me at firstname.lastname@example.org.
If you are already a Christian but yet you are struggling today, I want to encourage you from Hebrews 3:12-15 (NLT):
“Be careful then, dear brothers and sisters. Make sure that your own hearts are not evil and unbelieving, turning you away from the living God. You must warn each other every day, while it is still “today,” so that none of you will be deceived by sin and hardened against God. For if we are faithful to the end, trusting God just as firmly as when we first believed, we will share in all that belongs to Christ. Remember what it says: “Today when you hear His voice, don’t harden your hearts as Israel did when they rebelled.””
I read this scripture recently with my 5:00 am Fight Club, (no not with boxing gloves – it is similar to a Bible Study but we are fighting to grow spiritually in addition to reading the Bible…★ Click here if you want to know more ★). Well as we were discussing this, God reminded me of Michelangelo’s masterpiece on the Sistine Chapel ceiling called “The Creation of Adam” which portrays the scene from the Book of Genesis when God breathed life into Adam. What always gets me is the stark contrast of the lukewarm reach of Adam and the outstretched hand of God. It is a great illustration of how He is always actively reaching out to us, just waiting for us to turn to Him in our distress. Brandon Webb made this powerful point of how we are just like Adam and tend to have a half-hearted approach towards God:
“People are passionate or zealous about many things. We are passionate about work, striving to succeed. We are passionate about possessions, striving to have more. We are passionate about hobbies and interests. We are passionate about our sports teams. Think of this…We always have enough time, energy and money for those things about which we are passionate. The real question is: are we passionate about that which is most important? Are we passionate about God? ”
Where do you place your priorities? Are you passionate about pursuing your relationship with God? Once of my favorite verses on this is from Colossians 2:6-7 (NLT)…
“And now, just as you accepted Christ Jesus as your Lord, you must continue to follow Him. Let your roots grow down into Him, and let your lives be built on Him. Then your faith will grow strong in the truth you were taught, and you will overflow with thankfulness.”
Did you know that the root zone of a tree can vary from 1 1/2 to 4 times the width of the tree canopy? So when you apply that concept to our walk with Christ, to be ROOTEDin Him and to BUILD our lives on Him will take time, energy and commitment to grow more and more like Him! When you think of Joseph in this context, it’s clear that he must have had tremendous zeal and passion for God to be chosen to raise His son. I close with this final thought about Jesus’ stepfather…
Can the same be said of you? If not, you can choose a different path if don’t harden you heart!Today If you hear the Holy Spirit calling you to action, do not harden your heart because you will miss the opportunity of what God wants to do in and through you! We celebrate Christmas today because a humble carpenter named Joseph didn’t!
For those who maybe have never read the Christmas Story in totality, here are the major stories:
The message called “Serving; The Key To Abundant Life” by Barry Parker in which he shares the importance of incorporating the (4) serving environments seen in Jesus’ life – personal devotion to the Father, serving the crowd, serving the Spiritual Family and serving the inner circle could be the secret to abundant life.
The message called “The Benefit of Doubt” by Steven Furtick which is one of the most amazing Christmas messages I have heard on the life of Joseph! Absolutely amazing!!
Today we close our Temptation Series on how to avoid the Consequences of Anger. It has been a great series that I hope you have enjoyed. If this is your first time, permit me to recap the previous (7) posts. We first introduced the series using Abraham’s Nephew “Lot” as a case study about the danger of flirting with Temptation called:
When planning out the Temptation Series, I purposely saved anger for the last post because of the toxic nature of this particular pitfall. Every single person has felt the sting of this force whether as the receiver or as the one to fly off the handle. Anger manifests itself in different forms and in varying levels of severity. One of my favorite verses on anger comes from Proverbs 29:11 (NIV1984)
“Fools give full vent to their rage, but the wise bring calm in the end.”
Now I say that it’s my favorite, but it is also quite convicting at the same time as I tend to give full vent to my anger or frustration when I feel I have been wronged or treated unfairly. But the key is in the first word…FOOLS!“Fools give full vent to their rage.” What do the WISE do?? They “bring calm!” (See also Ecclesiastes 7:9). My hope and prayer is that God would open your eyes to see the danger of yielding to this monster!
A few weeks ago I was visiting family in New Jersey and New York and it was interesting to see how much I have changed since moving to Texas 10 years ago. As I stood waiting on the curb at Newark International Airport, the amount of car horns repeatedly sounding off was evidence to the short fuse people have when they don’t get to where they want to go. After being picked up, I then saw the effect of being “cut off” by other cars on my sister’s disposition. Now she wasn’t experiencing road rage or anything near to the extent that we have been hearing on the news, but Anger definitely popped up! Hahaha! And though I thought I had overcome anger behind the wheel, I lost my temper as I was cut off in the pick-up line at my girl’s High School after I had landed that day. This example is insignificant enough, but the pitfall we are focusing on today is one that if not contained can cause irreparable damage! Anger is an all too common emotion that we all have felt, sometimes justifiably, but more times than not we unleash our hostility on those in our lives. King David had this advice in Psalm 37:8-9 (NLT):
“Stop being angry! Turn from your rage! Do not lose your temper — it only leads to harm. For the wicked will be destroyed, but those who trust in the Lord will possess the land.”
Oh how true this is. Growing up I saw how violent my father would get when he drank, and the hurt he inflicted on my mom. For years my Father allowed the alcohol to consume him and when he found himself at the bottom of the bottle, his rage was released on her. By the age of 5 my mom divorced him so she could escape from the abuse. If you find yourself in that circumstance I encourage you to find help, here is a great resource: Break the Silence Against Domestic Violence.
The Bible has a lot to say about anger. One of the most famous quotes about communication and conflict comes from James 1:19 which instructs:
This by far is the best advice anyone could heed. I know myself that more problems have resulted when I failed to follow this counsel. I have worked hard to change this tendency as I have been slow to listen, quick to speak and quick to get angry. I saw this great quote that summarizes James 1:19 beautifully:
“You have two ears and one mouth. Follow that ratio. Listen more, talk less.”
I love that so much!! How different would this world be if we did not allow our emotions to run wild? I have been going through a Bible Reading plan call “Holy Emotions – Biblical Responses to Every Challenge” by Carol McLeod. She made some very interesting observations that dovetail beautifully with what we are talking about.
“Your emotions travel 80,000 times faster than your thoughts travel. Isn’t that amazing? The tremendous speed of our emotional responses to life helps to explain why, even Christians, often tend to operate out of feelings rather than out of principle…If you continue to allow your emotions to rapidly yank you through life, you will always say things that are embarrassing, act in ways that are unbecoming, and never be the person that God intended for you to be. You will end up having the effect of a rapid-moving, volcanic eruption that decimates everyone in its violent, angry path.”
Wow! That was so true in my life both before accepting Jesus as my savior and regrettably after becoming a Christian as well. I have worked hard to break the cycle of violence that was passed down from my father who witnessed the same behavior from his father. Now I have never lifted a hand to my wife or kids but I certainly have been short with them and mean at times. In the devotional Carol McLeod mentioned Proverbs 4:23 (NLT) which warns:
“Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life.”
I have read that passage many times but she made this point that helped me see it in a whole new light:
“Your heart does not want to be guarded. It desires to loudly express itself and all of its opinions. Your heart is passionate about ventilating, vomiting and vocalizing every little feeling it has ever experienced. The Bible never says that we are allowed to express everything that is in our heart – it simply says to guard it.”
Genesis 4:2-16 tells of the first man who failed miserably to guard his heart. Cain, the son of Adam and Eve, brought an offering to God after a period of time; whereas his brother Abel brought the firstborn of his flock. God did not have any regard for Cain’s offering which resulted in him becoming was very angry. In verses 6-7 there is a truth that all of us need to learn today…
“The Lord said to Cain, ‘Why are you angry, and why has your face fallen? If you do well, will you not be accepted? And if you do not do well, sin is crouching at the door. Its desire is contrary to you, but you must rule over it.’”
God warned Cain that “sin is crouching at the door,” which just like a lion ready to strike, our Anger is no different.
Unfortunately Cain did not resist the temptation and he ended up committing the first murder in history as a result of his bitterness and resentment towards his brother Abel. As a result, Cain was cursed and became a “fugitive and a wanderer on the earth.” James 1:20 (NLT) instructs that:
“Human anger does not produce the righteousness God desires.”
So if we call ourselves Christ Followers and earnestly desire to serve God, we must get a hold on our anger issues to avoid the consequences which may be more than we can bear. I read this story a long time ago which has always stuck with me. It is a great analogy on destructive nature of anger.
“You will have to live with the consequences of everything you say. What you say can preserve life or destroy it; so you must accept the consequences of your words.”
But there is hope; we can start small in turning things around simply by following what Proverbs 15:1 (ESV) says:
I have seen firsthand the difference when I answer softer than I want to. This post has focused a lot on the heavy consequences of Anger and is a little more negative than usual but I think that is indicative of how dangerous it is to give into this destructive emotion. But of course there are many benefits when you resist the temptation. I love what Proverbs 13:3 (NLT) offers:
“Those who control their tongue will have a long life; opening your mouth can ruin everything.”
When you control your tongue, you will reap the rewards of a long life! In the moment it may feel good to give full vent to your anger but I think we can all agree that
Amen? If you have grown up with Anger in your home or you are currently bringing it into the lives of those you love, you can break the cycle and the legacy that you leave. But it will take work. I encourage you to pray continually for God to intercede, study the bible for versus of anger (there are a ton), and study everything you can on the topic, the devotional by Carol McLeod would be a great start. I will close with one last quote:
“I can ‘act’ like Jesus without prayer. I can win an Academy Award for smiling sweetly and reciting kind platitudes while my heart is roaring and my mind is vengeful…Jesus does not desire for me to merely act like Him, but He longs for me to be like Him, and there is a decided difference.”
If we call ourselves Christians, then we must actually work to become more like Jesus and not merely pretend! As James 1:22 says:
To that end, Watermark Church in Dallas has a great Marriage Ministry class called re|engage which I shared (16) posts from what I learned a couple years ago, (Click here to read). They had a supplemental lesson on Anger which at the end they gave these questions for reflection. Regardless of whether you are married or not, these are applicable to everyone:
How is your anger affecting your marriage and relationships with others today?
What are some beliefs, expectations, or past experiences that might be contributing to your emotions and which lead up to anger?
Relating to the scripture from James 1:19-20, why does your anger not lead to the righteousness that God desires?
Action Item: Share with your spouse or a trusted friend your desire to yield your anger to God and ask them to pray for you as you begin this process.
I pray that if Anger has a hold on your life, that you will allow God to work on your heart to stop from yielding to this toxic temptation! Change can happen; it did for me and it can for you!
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Today’s pitfall is one that I think hits home for just about everyone to some degree, as we all have leaned into some juicy morsel that was being told to us. Now before you try to get on your high horse and deny it, scripture backs this up. Proverbs 18:8 (NLT) reveals:
“Rumors are dainty morsels that sink deep into one’s heart.”
A rumor is defined as a “circulating story or report of uncertain or doubtful truth.” And even though the validity is questionable, we latch onto the secret and run with it as though it was gospel. Today I want to unpack how this seemingly insignificant temptation can cause chaos in our life and how it’s paramount that we guard our hearts and not allow ourselves to give in to the pitfall to gossip (See Proverbs 4:23-24).
It’s funny the things that you remember. Now if you have been tracking with our Temptation Series, I have correlated a bible character with the particular sin to avoid the consequence of, but as I started to plan for this Thought about the perils of gossiping, I immediately reminisced about a VeggieTales video I watched with my kids when they were young called “Larry-Boy and the Rumor Weed.” Before you dismiss this parallel give me some grace to explain. I may be dating myself here but we had the VeggieTales video on VHS tape, (google that if you don’t know what that is). Though it was produced in 1999 and the special effects are not spectacular based on what is produced now, it’s still one of my favorites. This episode however gave my oldest daughter nightmares and to this day she says that is why she hates weeds! Hahaha! I hate them too! In fact, as a result of the mild winter, when spring came this year, weeds popped up all over my yard. And because it was so early in the season, the lawn care technician said we had to wait.
Well as we waited the weeds grew to be over a foot tall!! It was staggering to see how fast and tall the weeds got. And just like allowing the weeds to grow, when we allow gossiping to happen, it will spread to become an uncontrollable mess! In the VeggieTales episode, Larry-Boy is a cucumber action-hero who must thwart a plant spreading rumors in Bumblyburg. One of the things that I loved was the catchy song lyric from Larry-Boy’s archenemy:
That’s some good advice right there…“a tiny little story can make a big mess!” Though it cased my daughter to have nightmares, the way the Rumor Weed kept growing as the story spread to more and more people was really powerful because it showed how a little rumor that two kids started could produce a monstrous weed! And more importantly, it showed the consequences of yielding to the temptation as the city was under siege by a horticultural terror! I’m reminded of what Proverbs 18:20-21 (GNT) says:
“You will have to live with the consequences of everything you say. What you say can preserve life or destroy it; so you must accept the consequences of your words.”
Amen? Spreading rumors or gossiping is much more than just “dishing in the dirt,” words have the power of life and death (see Proverbs 18:21)! And when we allow gossip to proceed from of our mouths we open the door to all kinds of problems because Gossip snowballs. Just as the Veggie Monster grew larger as more and more gossip was spread, our participation and proliferation of rumors can cause devastation. I am sure you can remember a time in school or in the office when a story spun out of control and caused conflict. But Proverbs 26:20 (NLT) shows what will happen when we don’t join in…
“Fire goes out without wood, and quarrels disappear when gossip stops.”
You may be thinking to yourself, “I don’t spread rumors,” butmaybe that’s because you don’t realize what gossip is. Rick Warren had this great insight:
“When we’re talking about a situation with somebody who is neither part of the problem or part of the solution, then were probably gossiping.”
I think we ALL are guilty of that!! There are so many scriptures in the book of Proverbs that warns about gossiping but Proverbs 17:9 (HCSB) gets to the heart of the matter:
“Whoever conceals an offense promotes love, but whoever gossips about it separates friends.”
If we truly want to love on others than we will keep our mouths shut! Otherwise we are asking for conflict in our friendships!
At one point of the VeggieTales show, this statement was made:
“How do you kill a weed?” The answer… “You go to the root.”
I know I am quoting this cartoon a lot but there are some really good nuggets to mine from it. If we want to combat the rumor weeds in our lives, we need to get to the root! To that end, I wanted to share with you an amazing message called “Necessary Sins Series – Part 2: Gossip“ by Craig Groeschel, Life Church.TV. He suggested this practical approach to overcome the sin of gossip by asking these (3) questions…
“Not only is it wrong to speak the gossip, it’s also wrong to listen to the gossip. Why? What you permit, you promote…If you listen to it you are participating in it.” Craig Groeschel
I never really thought about that before, “What you permit, you promote.” Ouch! Something to think about, if you are listening to gossip about a friend or co-worker, what makes you think that when you are not around that person is not talking about you? And if that advice was not sufficient, I will close with what Jesus said in Matthew 12:33-35 (NLT):
“A tree is identified by its fruit. If a tree is good, its fruit will be good. If a tree is bad, its fruit will be bad. You brood of snakes! How could evil men like you speak what is good and right? For whatever is in your heart determines what you say. A good person produces good things from the treasury of a good heart, and an evil person produces evil things from the treasury of an evil heart.”
If we call ourselves followers of Christ, then our mouths should align with the truth! Just like a tree is identified by its fruit, then we should be people who do not join in when the gossiping starts and more to the point we should not allow it to continue in our presence! Amen?
I know I am pushing my luck, but if you will permit one more quotation from the Larry-Boy episode, I wanted to finish with this simple advice that the father told his son at the end that:
And that is what I want to leave with you today! Let our words point to the God we serve!
Today’s Thought has been in the hopper for quite some time. I have mulled over and over for at least six months now. The title is an expression that my wife has periodically brought up in conversation with me for why we should do the things that we do. It’s all for the Kingdom of God. That’s a tough one isn’t it?? To live your life doing things for an “audience of one.” For those who are believers in Christ, you know the “Christianese” answer right? “Of course my reasons are only for the glory of God,” but if you’re being honest, I’m sure that from time to time, you too have looked for that “atta-boy” or “atta-girl” after you have gone out you way to help someone or do something. This is something that I have struggled with for most of my life both before becoming a Christian and after. Yeah I would believe that my motivations were pure but in reality I would look for the approval of others or recognition for the “good deed” that I had done. I think this photo captures my point…
We all want to have our efforts appreciated. When you look at this performer he sure is enjoying the accolades from the audience, but the real question is…could you still put forth tremendous effort to a theater like this?
That is the true test! Can we still labor for God and work our hearts out with no acknowledgement at all? Can you spend yourself even if no one ever knows what you did? That is what I want to unpack today!
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The Apostle Paul addressed this perfectly in this Galatians 1:10 (ESV)
“For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.”
That last part is particularly convicting to me. If we call ourselves a follower of Jesus Christ and live our lives trying to please others, you have to evaluate who is “LORD of your life”. YOU or GOD?!
At first I did not even realize this character flaw but God used my wife to challenge me why do I do what I do? “Am I trying to win the Approval of human beings or of God?” It wasn’t until I attended a men’s conference back in November 2014 that God opened my eyes that I needed to address this issue in my heart. During the conference one of the speaker’s invited the men to respond to what God was speaking into their hearts. I was one of these men on my knees repenting of how I sought after the praise of people over the glorification of God. Oftentimes it is hard to see the chinks in our armor and how self-absorbed we can be. I think Paul David Tripp nailed it when he said:
“Be aware that the kingdom of self is a costume kingdom. It does a perversely brilliant job of masquerading as the kingdom of God.”
Wow! Could it be that we are completely hoodwinked or deceived to believe that we are serving God while all the time really serving ourselves??
It’s not until recently that I realized why I had sought the approval of others so vehemently. God has been working mightily in my heart for the past couple weeks. In the last post called ★ Thought for the Day – What’s Your Story? – ¡Parte Dos! ★, I talked about my experience with the men of Zaragoza while on a missions trip to Mexico. As part of my testimony, I shared about how my father wanted nothing to do with me once my mom and I moved from Pennsylvania to New York. As I prepared for the Bible Study, God revealed to me that I not only had a father wound, but one from my grandfather as well. The move to the TriState area (NY) was not for a change of scenery but out of necessity because we were out of money; and so we moved into the house that my mom grew up in. We lived in the upstairs apartment from my grandfather but even though there was only a floor separating us, we might as well have lived on another planet. The journey to, and “life in the city” was overwhelming for this country boy. Though it was only a 2 hour and 15 minute drive, life was completely different. Instead of dirt roads, there were miles and miles of freeways. I went from riding my bike everywhere to taking a city bus or subway. And from being rejected by my father to my grandfather.
As a boy of 12 years old, I was excited to get to know my grandfather but unfortunately I found out pretty quick that he wanted nothing to do with me. So as I experienced a second arrow to my heart, a deep ceded need for a man’s approval was birthed. In his 2001 groundbreaking book “Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man’s Soul,” John Eldredge spoke about how every man has received a wound or wounds in their life from their father regardless of how good they might have been. He made this profound statement about how this injury is dealt with:
“Men either overcompensate for their wound and become driven, or they shrink back and go passive. Often it’s an odd mixture of both.”
I have realized that my drive and aggressiveness in life has been motivated unconsciously to prove that I am worthy of love and have “what it takes.” At the time I did not realize that the rejection of my father and grandfather had cultivated a deep need for the approval of those in my life, especially men because of the absence of any masculine influence. And a result, my motives behind why I would help others was more for commendation than genuine love of others.
Back in 2014 I dealt with the symptom of the issue but not the root. I did not fully know why I was so desperate for attention but now I am much more in tune with the cause; and have truly come to terms that I must be motivated by, and content with, the audience of the One!! I need to keep this on the sticky side of my brain!
I am going go old school and go to the King James Version of 1 Corinthians 10:31:
“Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God.”
As part of the Temptation Series, we have unpacked about avoiding the consequences of alcohol and gluttony which you may be thinking why am I using this verse now, well I’m glad you asked. Chapter 10 deals with idolatry, about the danger of worshiping things that do not please God (alcohol, gluttony and partying – See 1 Corinthians 10:6-11). We need to be aware that giving ourselves over to anything other than God is a slippery slope. The last part of verse 31 is what I want to focus on.
This is something that can radically change a person’s life if they will put in the work. It is really easy to focus on yourself, as Tripp said the kingdom of self does “a perversely brilliant job of masquerading as the kingdom of God.” So it’s not just enough to be helping others and serving God, we need to always be checking our motives!
In this self-promoting, indulgent world it is very easy to get derailed by all the “highlights” of people’s lives tweeted and shared online; and seek the approval from the world instead of our Heavenly Father. If we are not careful we can become imprisoned to the acceptance we receive on social media. I read this quote somewhere and thought it was perfect…
“A person with a changed heart seeks praise from God, not from people.”
If we seek to be changed, God will answer. In Ezekiel 36:26, He spoke through the project and said,
“I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.”
Amen? Do you want that? I will close with these song lyrics from Francesca Battistelli’s song called “He Knows My Name” in which she proclaims…
I don’t need my name in lights I’m famous in my Father’s eyes Make no mistake He knows my name I’m not living for applause I’m already so adored It’s all His stage He knows my name oh, oh, He knows my name oh, oh
Check it out and let the lyrics wash over your soul!
The question remains…
Why do you do what you do??
Is it for God or for man’s approval?
Is it enough to be famous in your father’s eyes only?
I pray you will be!
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In the post ★ Thought for the Day – What’s Your Story? ★ , I shared about the resent Missions Trip to Zaragoza, Mexico I went on with my church to partner with a local church called Ranchos Dos Countries. Today I want to build upon that and tell you about an amazing God story that happened while I was there. Before I do that, I want to give a little context about the trip because I was not even supposed to go. Our church had a meeting several months earlier in which they talked about all the different opportunities available for the year. My daughter heard about the student trip to Mexico and wanted to go with the other teenagers. But at the time of signups there was not a lot of information and I was uncomfortable to send her out of the country for the first time. So we decided to go on the family Missions trip instead. Though it was not my plan to go, it was without a doubt the plan of God that I’d be there as I would find out just two days after getting there. But to get there I had to go through much spiritual warfare. I have been on a high pressure project and the timing of the trip could not have been worse in regards to executing the work but it was exactly what I needed!!
My part on the mission trip was to share my testimony of how God has changed my life with the men of Zaragoza. If you have followed this blog for any length of time, you know full well that I have made many mistakes and had a very dark life before accepting Jesus as my savior in 1998. So when I was asked to share my testimony, I accepted the responsibility without hesitation because I love to share how God used my wife to lead me out the life I was enslaved in. But unbeknownst to me, this time God wanted me to share an unabridged testimony. I have shared openly about the past problems with drugs, alcoholism, partying, depression, pornography and the night I almost committed suicide. This time however, God placed on my heart to share about the abuse that happened in my teenage years , which up until this point I had only shared with a handful of people. Though I believe I had been healed from the abuse, the stigma and shame kept me from being 100% open and transparent with others about this trauma. Now people who know me personally would not agree with that assessment probably, but for me I want my life to serve as a warning to others, and that cannot be fully realized if I hold back any part of the story that God has carried me through. And let me tell you, I am so thankful I did, because I believe that there was still some amount of healing that needed to be done which happened that week in Mexico!
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So…back to the God story I want to share with you. I was ready to air all the dirty laundry and leave the “baggage” back in Texas, those thoughts of condemnation and shame which have weighed me down, and go full throttle to minister to the men in Mexico. I was warned that because Zaragoza is a small community where everyone knows everyone, it will be a challenge to get the men to share. In addition to that, inside my head there was spiritual warfare right before I started to speak because of the age gap between most of the men and me, most being 20 years older than me, God showed up in a powerful way and cut right through all the blockades! As I sat in a small one room schoolhouse
with (16) leather-faced men who had been hardened by the sun and by life, God worked through me to reach these men. Strongholds were broken and breakthroughs were made that I have never seen before!! The truth of James 5:16 (ESV) was realized in a mighty way…
“Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.”
As I shared my story and confessed my sins and opened up about the abuse, God softened the hearts of these men. They saw that regardless of what has happened in the past, He can heal and deliver anyone from any bondage of sin, shame or guilt. Tears flowed in that small schoolhouse as man after man confessed sins and regrets of past mistakes. The greatest moment for me though was when the last man to speak shared that he was sexually abused too!! It was incredible to see the raw honesty and deliverance from the enemy that happened!!! And all I had to do was be a conduit for God’s love, grace and forgiveness to flow. Charles Stanley has this great life lesson on the verse from James we just read, he said…
“No Christian has ever been called to ‘go it alone’ in his or her walk of faith. We cannot obey God without being in regular, close fellowship with other believers. He has designed us so that many of our needs can only be met through mutual interdependence.”
Jesus Himself needed fellowship with others. Almost immediately He started His ministry, Jesus invited men to follow Him and become His disciples, see Luke Chapter 5. So if Jesus saw the value in surrounding Himself with others shouldn’t we?? This is something that in the past two years I have been doing and I have seen such tremendous growth and strengthening in my faith walk. And it is that sharpening that enabled me to finally break free to share what I did. I just finished a Bible reading plan called “Play The Man” from Mark Batterson and he made this powerful point:
“A man of conscience is a change agent—a force to be reckoned with. As Andrew Jackson observed, “One man with courage makes a majority.” He’s not blown here and there by trending winds. He’s anchored to the Word of God, and that anchor holds him through ups and downs, through thick and thin.”
When you’re a man (or woman) of conscience you can overcome sin and adversity in life but you must be dialed in to God! To be a change agent, a force to be reckoned with, you must study God’s Word because that is where true freedom will come! I will close with this truth from John 8:31-32 (NLT)…
“Jesus said to the people who believed in Him, “You are truly my disciples if you remain faithful to my teachings. And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.””
The truth will set you free!! What I experienced in Mexico with those men you can experience too IF you are willing to be a conduit for God to speak through. You don’t need to a seminary degree or to know the Bible cover to cover, it’s just about being willing to be transparent with your struggles and available to share the truth of God’s Word that will encourage and transform people’s lives!!
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Does the title of today’s Thought surprise you? One day in the office, a co-worker said to me, “I hate religion.” He was surprised by my response when I said “so do I.” Knowing that I am a Christian, he naturally assumed I was “Religious.” I told him that “Religion” is just “Man’s” way of understanding or attempting to connect with God. Unfortunately though people are hurt and oppressed by “Man-made” rules and then they blame God for what people say or do to them. Mark Twain once said:
That is so true! He gets blamed all the time for what people do in “His name,” but what God really desires is to have a personal relationship with us, through His Son Jesus, where we include Him in all aspects of our life. I truly believe that you can “Hate Religion” and…
I am excited to announce that today is our 200th post!!
It is also the 3 year anniversary since the Daily Dependence blog was born! And the first post that will also include an audio recording if you prefer to listen instead of reading, just click here to listen.
Today I want to ask you this question…
We all have one. It could be that you were adopted, or grew up in a single parent home, or maybe you had both parents under one roof. Perhaps your family was rich or poor or somewhere in the middle. You may have grown up believing in God, or never have darkened a church door in your life, or you could have come to faith later in life. Whatever your family of origin, socioeconomic circumstances and religious background may be, we all have a story which has helped shape and define the way we behave and interact with others.
For me, I grew up in a one stoplight town in Pennsylvania with my mom, brother and sister. As a divorced woman with 3 kids to support, my mom worked herself to the bone as a maid in a local resort destination but unfortunately God really did not have any real part in our lives. I have been thinking a lot about my story lately since my oldest daughter and I got back from a trip to Zaragoza, Mexico. If you are thinking “I have never heard of a vacation destination with that name,” well that’s because no one would ever pick there to spend a week unless they had family there or as a result of their car breaking down while driving through to somewhere else. Zaragoza is a dirt poor town near the Mexico–US border with Texas, 1 hour southwest of the Del Rio border crossing. With a population of approximately 12,000, Zaragoza is far from any resort area; in fact, it is 1,000 miles to the north of Acapulco, Mexico.
The reason we were there was to share the love of Jesus through acts of service…from passing out food in the neighboring homes, to putting on Vacation Bible School for the children, to facilitating men’s and women’s bible studies. The video below was produced by a friend of mine on the trip that captures the incredible week of ministry that our church experienced as we partnered with the local church called “Rancho Dos Countries” (www.ranchodoscountries.com) in Zaragoza, Mexico.
It was my first mission trip and was absolutely amazing! I shared the video with a buddy of mine and he had this to say…
“Looks like you helped bring a bunch of joy to some folks man!”
My response to him and what I want to share with you today is that it was just the opposite! I have spent over a year going out of my mind as a result of a project I am on and all the stress it has caused, but one week in Mexico has change my attitude and outlook on life! While he was correct that I did help some people, they helped me far more! I learned three major things while in Mexico:
I’ve always been a person who would pitch-in with whatever is needed. On the missions trip I learned very quickly that you will do a variety of jobs and there is absolutely no room for ego. From the Team Leaders to the Pastor to the youngest child on the trip, everybody was expected to shoulder their fair share and do whatever was asked of them without complaint and with joy. And that is exactly what happened! It was truly incredible to see Psalm 133:1 (NIV) in action!!
“How good and pleasant it is when God’s people live together in unity.”
We left from Mansfield, Texas as acquaintances but have come back as a family!
The second thing I learned was:
Many times I have acknowledged that God has blessed me with a beautiful family, a wonderful house, and a great job but until this trip I never truly understood how much I really am! The abject poverty that I saw on this trip was heart wrenching and quite honestly difficult for me to believe that in the 21st-century there still exists!
The people of Zaragoza have so little and yet when you talk with them, there is a deep joy and appreciation of what God has done in their lives. It was inspiring and convicting at the same time.
The final lesson I learned was:
I realized that the things that I worry about are so meaningless. Yes I may have a bad day at work or having issues on a tough project, but there are people not only in Mexico but all over the world who spend their days just fighting to survive. While there to encourage the people, I found myself being far more encouraged by them. I met a man there named Francisco. I first saw him riding up a hill towards me on the makeshift bicycle you see on bottom right of the photo. When he reached me and of the other guys from our team, we were greeted with the biggest smile. You may not have noticed it at first but there is a crank shaft that goes from the handle bars to the front wheels and that is because Francisco has no legs. He is known all around the town I would suspect because of the bicycle and his physical limitations but after talking with him for a half hour or so through a translator I believe it’s because of his joyful attitude and fun loving spirit. He also does an incredible job of shining shoes which is how he supports his wife and two daughters. We were blessed to hear his testimony of how 20 years ago he tried to jump on a moving train and lost his grip resulting in the dual amputation. If that were not traumatic enough, Francisco was also dragged by the train for a while before he got free. When he was found, Francisco was assumed dead and sent to the morgue. For 12 hours he laid there until the medical examiner discovered he was alive!! As I listened to this miraculous story, it is undeniable that the hand of God was on him that night and has been for the past 2 decades because there has never been a day in my life that I have ever gone to work with an ounce of his joy!! He truly embodies what the Apostle Paul commanded in Colossians 3:23-24 (NIV):
I have quoted this scripture many times believing in my heart that I was fulfilling the charge, only to see from the life of a humble shoeshine man that I have far to go. Because of Francisco my perspective has been forever changed. Boy I tell you nothing helps you more to forget about your problems like going on a mission trip to serve and help others because you never know how God will not work through you BUT to you!!
“Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. For as we share abundantly in Christ’s sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too.”
God comforts us so that we will turn around and comfort those in need. That is why Missions Trips are so wonderful, because you get to partner with God, to be His hands and feet in the fulfillment of the Great Commission that Jesus commanded in Matthew 28:18-20 (NIV):
“Then Jesus came to them and said, ‘All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.'”
Everyone has a story. Everyone has gone through hardships and adversity, some much more than others. The key though is what to you do with it?? My wife put it perfectly when we were talking about this Thought,
I love that! We all have story. How can you use your story to glorify God? Like Francisco, as we share our story of what God has carried us through, we can encourage and inspire others in His masterplan! I leave you with the same command to Go Make Disciples of all Nations, not just in another country but in your neighborhood, school or workplace! There are needs everywhere and I pray that you will move you into action!
Happy Father’s Day! Today’s post is not just for men, but for everyone who has a man in their life, whether it be their father, husband, son, uncle, nephew or friend. The third Sunday of June has a different impact on you depending on what your relationship is with the man you call Father, Dad or Daddy. I shared about my Father in the post called ★ Thought for the Day – Never Fatherless ★, about my parents divorcing when I was 5 years old and how my relationship with my father was nonexistent from the age 12 until we reconnected at the 36. There was hole in my heart for many years that drove me to need approval from others. The muse for this Thought came shortly after the 2016 Olympics in Rio de Janeiro had finished and I saw this interview that Michael Phelps did for ESPN called “The Evolution of Michael Phelps” that blew me away!
Okay if you did not play the video, STOP READING AND WATCH THE INTERVIEW, it’s worth it and it is the backbone for this post. I have always been a fan of Michael Phelps even after the infamous “bong photo” hit the front page of the newspaper six months after the Beijing Olympics in 2014. Retirement it seems, gave the Olympian way too much time on his hands. As I watched the video, I was reminded of what Proverbs 16:27a (TLB) warns:
“Idle hands are the devil’s workshop.”
Boredom opened the door for the enemy to attack and much like we have been talking about in our Temptation Series, Michael yielded to many self-destructive behaviors. When the photo of Phelps using marijuana was released, it was incredible how the world turned on him. Parodies and jokes were everywhere and of course shock that he blew it. It’s interesting that the world we live in is always looking to find someone to idolize but it seems that they love it even better when someone crash and burns! The media news outlets love the “fall from grace” stories – “If it bleeds, it leads” unfortunately.
In addition to addressing the photo, the interview gave insight into the swimmer’s life about his complicated relationship with his father, Fred, his second DUI arrest in 2014 and the time that he spent in a Behavioral Rehab Facility in which he contemplated suicide after the second DUI arrest in 10 years! As I watched the brokenness of Michael Phelps over the void that his father’s absence created, I could not help but compare how not having my father in my life not only influenced, but shaped my life to continually strive for the approval of others.
Though to the rest of the world saw Michael Phelps as an unstoppable machine in the water and a picture of perfection and excellence, Michael was silently dying inside and had reached the point of no return in September of 2014. It is hard to believe that the man who “is the greatest Olympian of all time,” winning (23) medals, (19) – being gold winning at the point in 2014 would make this statement:
“I was a train wreck; I was like a time bomb, waiting to go off. I had no self-esteem, no self-worth. There were times where I didn’t want to be here. It was not good, I felt lost.”
BUT that is how the enemy works! You can have the adulation of the world, be on the top of your profession or head of the class and still end up feeling worthless and alone. That was my story too, though I was far from an Olympian, I had success in my life and still felt empty inside as well. If the most decorated Olympian in history could feel this way at the age of 31, how many other people are struggling with the same insecurities, the same father wounds and the same addictions that threaten to take them out? My prayer is that God would use me to take back territory that the enemy has stolen and to be a friend like Ray Lewis was to Michael Phelps to help lead people out of the darkness. The video revealed how Michael’s friend and former linebacker of the Baltimore Ravens, came alongside of him. Ray gave him the book called “The Purpose Driven Life: What on Earth Am I Here for?” by Rick Warren which helped Phelps to come out of the darkness his was in. I love what Rick Warren said in the book:
“We are products of our past, but we don’t have to be prisoners of it.”
Boy if we could grasp this, how different would this world be? Like me, Michael Phelps parents divorced when he was young (age 9) and he too had his own “father wound” that scarred and imprisoned the Olympian to also strive to be better than everyone else to achieve the acceptance from his father that alluded him. BUT that does not have to be how the story ends! You may be reading this today with a similar story of not having the greatest earthly father, but I want you to know there is a Heavenly Father who can be all that you never had and more. God is in the business of changing lives and rewriting even the most tragic story. We all love a comeback story and that is what can happen to you if you just trust that God is a good, good Father!It doesn’t matter what you did, how badly you sinned, it only matters what you do next! Will you continue in the downward spiral or will you turn things around and repent. That is what God did for me and for Michael Phelps. As a result of Michael embracing “a higher power” as he referred to God in the interview, and working through his broken relationship with his father, Phelps came back and won another (4) gold medals and (1) silver in Brazil just 2 years after his life hit rock bottom!
Shortly after the 2016 Rio Olympic, I posted this ★ Thought for the Day – Let Your Light Shine ★ in which I shared about a wonderful moment that I had with my mom when went to Washington DC in 1996 and she to was able to touch the Olympic Torch as the relay went through the Nation’s Capitol on the way to the Summer Games in Atlanta, Georgia. The Historic Relay with the Torch has been a huge part of opening ceremonies and for the past 10 months I have been mulling over this Thought for the Day about what exactly does it mean to “Be the MAN to Carry the Light?” I saw this image
and the powerful symbolism that the Torch is for the Olympic games and realized that it also has a spiritual connection to what Jesus said in Matthew 5:14-16 (NLT)…
“You are the light of the world—like a city on a hilltop that cannot be hidden. No one lights a lamp and then puts it under a basket. Instead, a lamp is placed on a stand, where it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your good deeds shine out for all to see, so that everyone will praise your heavenly Father.”
We are to Be The Light! To let it shine as we carry it wherever we go, sharing it with everyone we come into contact with. As a husband and father I realize the immense responsibility that I have as to constantly be checking where I am at in my personal walk with God in order to be an effective leader in my home. As a man, this is a God-given role that we must take very serious. I read this from Charles Stanley that I thought was really good…
“Sometimes we mistakenly think that Grace excuses us from the hard work of growing spiritually. It doesn’t. The Bible says that “because of practice” we have our “senses trained to discern good and evil” (see Hebrews 5:14). That means we grow by allowing the Holy Spirit to direct us, by obeying God, and by making godly decisions.”
Grace is at the heart of the Christian faith. God is always one prayer away, ready to forgive and restore us just as He did for Michael Phelps, BUT we still have to put in Olympian-like effort to stay the course and live out our lives to make impact on the world. We all what to make a difference in this life to be remembered by those in our life, I know I do. My heart’s desire is to be a world changer, first to my wife and daughters and then to anyone God would send my way in order to break through the darkness and the hold that the enemy had on this world! John 1:5 (ESV) says::
“The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.”
My constant prayer is that God would help me to overcome the attacks of the enemy in both my life and in the lives of others! That I would be of value for the building of His kingdom here on earth! John 8:12 (NLT) says:
“Jesus spoke to the people once more and said, ‘I am the light of the world. If you follow me, you won’t have to walk in darkness, because you will have the light that leads to life.’”
Jesus gave us the model to emulate. I want to be more like Jesus in every way! Something that I often pray is for Him to direct me, to mold me and use me for HIS glory! To be the man to carry the light for the building of His kingdom! I will close with this thought from John Eldredge that he wrote in the pocket booklet called “You Have What It Takes: What Every Father Needs to Know”:
“You, Dad, are the most powerful man in the world…At least in their world…Never forget that no one is as powerful as you are in the lives of your sons and daughters.
Mother is love and tenderness and mercy. She is a picture of the heart of God.
But identity – especially gender identity – is bestowed by the father. A boy learns if he is a man, if he has what it takes, from his dad. A girl learns if she is worth pursuing, if she is lovely, from her dad. That’s just the way God set this whole thing up. This power He has given to you.”
On this Father’s Day, I want to leave you with this challenge to impart to your son that he has what it takes, and/or if you have a daughter make sure she know that she is lovely and worthy to be pursued! Deuteronomy 6:6-7 (ESV) instructs:
“And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.”
That is what a man who is worthy to carry the light does!
Our Temptation Series continues today with us unpacking how to avoid the Consequences of Compromise. If you have missed the previous posts we first introduced the series using Abraham’s Nephew “Lot” as a case study (click here). We then studied about alcohol and drugs (click here), pornography and promiscuity (click here), adultery (click here), and most recently gluttony (click here).
Last Sunday the pastor at my church said that Satan wants us to bail out or compromise which got me thinking about this Thought for the Day because you can see this happening constantly in our culture. Today we will delve into the pitfall of compromise. If you have been following our blog, you know that this is a topic that we have explored quite a bit in the past; and that is because if this area is out of line, then every other part of your life will be affected. If we say we are a Christian then we must be very careful not to allow things “to slip” in this department. Now I am not living in a fantasy-land, I would love to say that all temptations goes away once you accept Christ as your savior but that would be denying what 1 Corinthians 10:12 (ESV) warns.
Temptation is real and will never go away while we are on this side of heaven. And compromise is a slow fade…What we say, the jokes we laugh at, how act should align with the faith we profess. I truly feel that how we handle ourselves should be the same regardless of who we are with. What do you think about that? Is that possible? I can honestly say that I try to be the same person whether it is with my daughters, my wife, a co-worker, my pastor or a stranger. Something that I have always tried to keep in mind is what I once heard motivational speaker, author and former pastor John Maxwell say:
What a humble statement and great wisdom too! No matter how far along you are in your journey, you are always one bad decision away from blowing it! In an instant we could ruin our legacy and reputation that we have built over a lifetime of good choices. Peer pressure from friends, or demands from employers/clients, or one’s own ambition to climb the corporate ladder can exert a huge gravitational pull towards compromising our moral or ethical beliefs. That is why we must heed the warning of 1 Corinthians and be mindful not to give into the enticements that satan dangles in front of us, whether it be cheating on an exam or our spouse, turning a blind eye to corruption or willingly partaking in it. This may be cliché but you will never regret doing the right thing and not going along with what people are doing. 2 Corinthians 6:14-18 (NLT) instructs…
“Don’t team up with those who are unbelievers. How can righteousness be a partner with wickedness? How can light live with darkness? What harmony can there be between Christ and the devil? How can a believer be a partner with an unbeliever? And what union can there be between God’s temple and idols? For we are the temple of the living God. As God said: “I will live in them and walk among them. I will be their God, and they will be my people. Therefore, come out from among unbelievers, and separate yourselves from them, says the Lord. Don’t touch their filthy things, and I will welcome you. And I will be your Father, and you will be my sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty.””
When we allow ourselves to be influenced by how we will be perceived or to make choices that we know are not God honoring, we open ourselves to some devastating consequences.
Today’s case study fell victim to the trap of yielding to the court of public opinion. Saul was the first king of the Israelites and was anointed by the prophet Samuel to lead. On the outside, he appeared to be quite “kingly,” but on the inside he desired only to garner the people’s approval and would do anything for that affirmation. For those not familiar with King Saul here’s the cliff notes version about this man.
We are first introduced to the man in 1 Samuel 9:1-2:
“There was a wealthy, influential man named Kish from the tribe of Benjamin. He was the son of Abiel, son of Zeror, son of Becorath, son of Aphiah, of the tribe of Benjamin. His son Saul was the most handsome man in Israel—head and shoulders taller than anyone else in the land.”
So Saul came from a wealthy family and looked the part as well. In verse 17, he received a great endorsement from the prophet Samuel…
“When Samuel saw Saul, the Lord said, ‘That’s the man I told you about! He will rule my people.’”
So he came from the right family, he looked the part and had the right supports. Saul had everyone hoodwinked including the prophet of God. It’s interesting though, when it came time to appoint Saul as King of Israel, he was nowhere to be found. 1 Samuel 10:21b-24 says:
“And finally Saul son of Kish was chosen from among them. But when they looked for him, he had disappeared! So they asked the Lord, “Where is he?”
And the Lord replied, “He is hiding among the baggage.” So they found him and brought him out, and he stood head and shoulders above anyone else.
Then Samuel said to all the people, “This is the man the Lord has chosen as your king. No one in all Israel is like him!”
And all the people shouted, “Long live the king!”
“Long live the king!?” The people cheered to receive a king that was “hiding among the baggage” at the time of appointment! From the onset, Saul proved he did not have what it takes; you can read all about his reign in 1 Samuel 11-13. As war continued with the Philistines, and hopelessness was spreading amongst the ranks, Saul’s true colors came out as he waited for Samuel. 1 Samuel 13:8-14 (NLT) recalls:
“Saul waited there seven days for Samuel, as Samuel had instructed him earlier, but Samuel still didn’t come. Saul realized that his troops were rapidly slipping away. So he demanded, “Bring me the burnt offering and the peace offerings!” And Saul sacrificed the burnt offering himself.
Just as Saul was finishing with the burnt offering, Samuel arrived. Saul went out to meet and welcome him, but Samuel said, “What is this you have done?”
Saul replied, “I saw my men scattering from me, and you didn’t arrive when you said you would, and the Philistines are at Micmash ready for battle. So I said, ‘The Philistines are ready to march against us at Gilgal, and I haven’t even asked for the Lord’s help!’ So I felt compelled to offer the burnt offering myself before you came.”
“How foolish!” Samuel exclaimed. “You have not kept the command the Lord your God gave you. Had you kept it, the Lord would have established your kingdom over Israel forever. But now your kingdom must end, for the Lord has sought out a man after His own heart. The Lord has already appointed him to be the leader of his people, because you have not kept the Lord’s command.”
As a result of not trusting in God and his desire to keep his men in line, Saul violated God’s command that only his prophet could present the offering so he lost the kingdom as a result of giving into compromise! The same can happen to us in our jobs, our marriages or our friendships if we too follow in the way of Saul. I got this fortune cookie once that I thought was priceless…
We need to practice discernment and realize that it is our choice as to what we give into. Now I don’t subscribe to fortune cookie wisdom, so let’s see what the Bible says…
“No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and He will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation He will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.” 1 Corinthians 10:13
Satan doesn’t make us do anything; we make the decision whether or not to compromise. This is something that I am hoping has come through loud and clear that yielding to temptation is on us but if we trust God He will help us through it! Living a life of truth is everything! In the post ★ “Back to the Basics” – Pursuit #2 – What Are You Feeding On? ★, we discussed all about the attacks of satan, spiritual warfare and the importance of putting on the Armor of God. In Ephesians 6:14 (NLT) it says:
“Stand your ground, putting on the belt of truth and the body armor of God’s righteousness.”
The Belt of Truth is intended to hold everything together. The Apostle Paul gave this advice because without living a life of integrity everything will fall apart. Proverbs 21:21 (ESV) has this promise for everyone who will choose a different path:
“Whoever pursues righteousness and kindness will find life, righteousness, and honor.”
But will we choose to pursue the tough road, the road to righteousness? Or will go the much simpler, more traveled road of compromise? I will close this with this thought from Jimmy Evans:
“There’s a difference between committing a sin and practicing a sin.”
We all make mistakes; the key is what you do once you have made it. Will you continue in that compromise or sin, or will you come clean with God and set things straight. The starting point goes back to trusting God. We need to daily renew our mind and our relationship with our heavenly Father in order to serve God in our school, friendships, vocations and our families! That is why this site is called “Daily Dependence,” because we all need to keep Christ at the center of our lives! What will you choose to do?
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Our Temptation Series continues today with us unpacking how to avoid the trap of Gluttony. If you have missed the previous posts, here’s a quick recap:
We first introduced the series using Abraham’s Nephew “Lot” as a case study (click here).
We then studied about alcohol and drugs by focusing on Noah (click here),
Next was about Lust and exploring the connection between Pornography and Promiscuity (click here).
Most recently was the pitfall of adultery through the life of King David (click here).
Today’s topic is not one that I see discussed too often but one that I felt led to share because of a brother in my Lifegroup who has shared about the temptation to medicate his problems through food. I would like to start off with this question…When you hear the word “gluttony” or someone who is a “glutton,” what comes to mind? Food, overeating for sure, but how about someone who is obese or grossly overweight? Now I am not being rude or unkind, that is what I thought a glutton was but that is not the case. Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines it as:
“One given habitually to greedy and voracious eating and drinking.”
And Dictionary.com defines it as:
“A person who eats and drinks excessively or voraciously.”
Nothing in those definitions state that someone yielding to gluttony is overweight as I had initially thought. For this Thought we will focus on the excessive indulgence of food. I would dare say that most Americans could fit that description. In our “SUPER-SIZED” Society we are prone to gorging ourselves way past what our bodies require for fuel. In a Barna Research Group study, the #3 top self-reported temptations that Americas owned up to has to do with today’s pitfall! According to survey:
55% of Americans are overwhelmed by the temptation to eat too much!! I stumbled across this graphic and found it quite interesting as to one reason that I never considered being a factor. It got my head scratching that I need to reevaluate which plate that I grab out of the cupboard because I know myself; I am not disciplined in portion control and will just fill up every inch with food. Therein lies the problem, Gluttony is a serious failure in self-discipline. Todd Hunter made this great point in his book “Our Favorite Sins”
“Most of the time temptation begins with something good: food, rest, God-approved sex, the need to be loved and accepted.”
The problem is when we allow Satan to take something good and twist it around and pervert it to something evil. That is how I see gluttony now. As I prepared for this post, I started to search the Bible. Surprisingly there is not much on the subject but what I did find was quite severe. The first reference I found was Deuteronomy 21:18-21 (ESV).
“If a man has a stubborn and rebellious son who will not obey the voice of his father or the voice of his mother, and, though they discipline him, will not listen to them, then his father and his mother shall take hold of him and bring him out to the elders of his city at the gate of the place where he lives, and they shall say to the elders of his city, ‘This our son is stubborn and rebellious; he will not obey our voice; he is a glutton and a drunkard.’ Then all the men of the city shall stone him to death with stones. So you shall purge the evil from your midst, and all Israel shall hear, and fear.”
Harsh! Stone the drunkard and glutton to death?? Boy I am glad this is not how they are treated today since I have fallen victim to both snares in my life! Another reference is Proverbs 28:7 (ESV) which says:
“The one who keeps the law is a son with understanding, but a companion of gluttons shames his father.”
And Proverbs 23:20-21 (ESV) warns:
“Be not among drunkards or among gluttonous eaters of meat, for the drunkard and the glutton will come to poverty, and slumber will clothe them with rags.”
When I read this passage I felt convicted big time because of a recent trip to Texas de Brazil. My project manager took the Architectural Team out for lunch as a thank you for all our hard work. This is a picture of my plate which I am embarrassed to confess was just the beginning of all the meat I devoured.
The more I pondered on this and looked at the definition of a glutton, I realized that I am ensnared by the temptation of consuming way too much, way too often. Our case study today also succumbed to his voracious appetite with disastrous consequences. The man I am referring to is Esau. For those not familiar with this Old Testament character here’s the cliff notes breakdown of this man of great potential whose undoing was a bowl of stew!
Esau was the son of Isaac and grandson of Abraham, (the patriarch of the Israelites). He was the first-born son and had a twin brother named Jacob. In Genesis 25:27-28 we are given some valuable insight to the man:
“When the boys grew up, Esau became a skillful hunter, a man of the field, but Jacob was a peaceful man, living in tents. Now Isaac loved Esau, because he had a taste for game, but Rebekah loved Jacob.”
Just like in any family, siblings tend to be complete opposites. I know that is the case for my daughters but one of the most disturbing differences between these twin brothers was the partiality from their parents. If you were to contemporize the difference, Esau was a “man’s man,” who was a tough outdoors-man and Daddy’s favorite! In that time period being the first-born son Esau was entitled for a double inheritance as well as the “blessing” from his father. Ann Spangler and Robert Wolgemuth had this description of Esau:
“As a young man he was not accustomed to holding anything back. He may have lived on the edge of danger, self-indulgence, and immediate gratification. Having his father’s favor did nothing to inhibit this behavior. But Esau had a serious problem—his brother Jacob.” Source: From Men of the Bible: A One-Year Devotional Study of Men in Scripture
Esau’s younger brother Jacob was indeed a problem but we have to keep in mind that he was without a doubt the underdog, the forgotten son by his father and worse yet, he did not live up to what Dad was looking for in a son. Effectively Jacob was “a momma’s boy” who was excessively influenced by and attached to his mother Rebekah (see Genesis 27 which tells of how she helped Jacob steal the blessing from Esau.) But before Jacob stole the blessing, he was able to steal something just as valuable from Esau as a result of his lack of will power and gluttonous ways! Genesis 25:29-34 (ESV) says:
“Once when Jacob was cooking stew, Esau came in from the field, and he was exhausted.
And Esau said to Jacob, “Let me eat some of that red stew, for I am exhausted!”(Therefore his name was called Edom.)
Jacob said, “Sell me your birthright now.”
Esau said, “I am about to die; of what use is a birthright to me?”
Jacob said, “Swear to me now.”
So he swore to him and sold his birthright to Jacob.
Then Jacob gave Esau bread and lentil stew, and he ate and drank and rose and went his way.
Thus Esau despised his birthright.”
A little dramatic no? He gives up a double inheritance for some red stew! On the surface you would think it was because of hunger, but I see it more about the failure to resist giving into instant gratification. Charles Stanley had this great insight on Genesis 25:34…
“In ‘despising’ his birthright, Esau proved himself ‘godless’ (see Hebrews 12:16) because he considered filling his empty stomach more important than the spiritual promises of God to Abraham. To avoid making Esau’s grave mistake, always remember the H. A. L. T. principle. Whenever you are hungry, angry, lonely, or tired, be very careful because you are especially vulnerable to sin. Before making a decision, stop and see God. The more you give into your feelings of weakness and look for ways to fill your needs apart from God, the more you’ll reap the terrible consequences of it.”
Esau took his birthright for granted and threw it away just for a momentary fulfillment. We need to be very careful when we are in these valley moments and remember the H. A. L. T. principle as it is applicable for all temptations we face. Hebrews 12:16-17 (NLT) has this startling reference to Esau:
“Make sure that no one is immoral or godless like Esau, who traded his birthright as the firstborn son for a single meal. You know that afterward, when he wanted his father’s blessing, he was rejected. It was too late for repentance, even though he begged with bitter tears.”
How sad that Esau lost everything to Jacob, in part because of gluttony. That is why I love the Bible; God never hides the mistakes His people made in order that we could learn from it.
We talked in previous posts about the Fruit of the Spirit mentioned in Galatians 5:22-23:
The last fruit being “self-control.” That is exactly what Esau was lacking. As a believer in Jesus Christ, the same power that raised Jesus from the dead lives within us, (see Romans 8:11.) The closer we get to Jesus, the more we should embody the Fruit of the Holy Spirit. The temptation of Gluttony is all about excess and when we give into it we are going down a road like Esau. John Piper had this to say:
“Gluttony is having a craving for food that conquers you. The text of Scripture that holds out the challenge to me on this issue is 1 Corinthians 6:12where Paul says — specifically in regard to food and drink — that he will not be enslaved by anything. He is saying, ‘I have one master, Jesus Christ, and I don’t want any other master.’”
If that verse sounds familiar, it is because we have discussed this in several posts already but it warrants review one more time. 1 Corinthians 6:12-14, 19-20 (ESV) says:
“‘All things are lawful for me,’ but not all things are helpful. ‘All things are lawful for me,’ but I will not be dominated by anything. ‘Food is meant for the stomach and the stomach for food’ — and God will destroy both one and the other. The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. And God raised the Lord and will also raise us up by his power.
Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.”
“The Body is the temple of the Holy Spirit,” is something I have heard pastors and others use in regards to weight control but in reality the context is about sexual immorality, (see the verses in between 6:15-18.) But I do think it is applicable nonetheless as we should honor God with every aspect of our lives. To that end, as I mentioned earlier, I asked the guys in my lifegroup for their perspective of what they had learned about temptation and addictions. Here is what one had to say…
“Addiction is really a lot of the same chemical process. The only real difference is the flavor of medication.
Temptation itself is not bad or sin. Jesus was tempted in every way we are. Sin happens when you give in to it. Deep down turning from it involves seeking God…daily, and doing deep introspection to the root cause. Why am I wanting to stuff my face what emotion is driving it?
Like sex addiction, food addiction is driven by emotion… specifically trying to medicate some deep wound. A person needs to start asking themselves the question why! Why do I want to eat? What am I feeling?”
I love the honesty and truth in that statement! It was only until recently that my friend shared about his struggles with overeating. What a great warning to watch out if you are using food to medicate for deeper issues. Be careful that you are not ignoring the red flags or trying to repress your emotions. The key comes back to self-control! Though this may seem like a lesser temptation, and not that big of a deal, Esau shows how when left unchecked, gluttony can result in some pretty significant consequences. The other key is to realize that you did not get entangled in this particular sin overnight so it will take hard work and some time to break the sin habit. I read this in ‘The Art Of Celebration’ Bible Reading Plan which I thought nailed it on the head:
“We may be frustrated with patterns of sin that repeat in our lives, our niggling character flaws and lack of discipline. We may want “one-click” holiness. But Jesus doesn’t wave a magic wand of saintly character over us.
Don’t lose heart – He’s not finished with us yet. He promises to finish what he started in us. We can change. He will change us.”
Don’t lose heart and trust God that He can and will help you in this area of temptation. I will close with this final word from Psalm 34:8:
“Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the man [or woman] who takes refuge in Him.”
If we want to break the cycle of sin-repent, sin-repent, we must take refuge in God!
Check back soon for the next installment of the Temptation Series called:
★ Thought for the Day – Avoiding the Consequences of Compromise (Part 5) ★
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I hope you have been enjoying our Temptation Series and though I had planned to be writing about “Avoiding the Consequences of Gluttony,” the Lord redirected me to write about today’s topic. I have never heard of the expression of “Fair Weather Faith,” but the title came to me in perfect clarity. I have heard of Fair-Weather Friends and Fair-Weather Fans. Merriam Webster Dictionary defines “fair-weather” as being:
“loyal or helpful only during times of success and happiness.”
We all have had people in our lives that seemed like they would be there through thick and thin but only to disappear once you needed them the most. Proverbs 17:17 (ESV) describes the type of friends we believed those people to have been:
“A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.”
In the post ★ Thought for the Day – Community That Matters ★ we talked a lot about the importance of fostering Biblical Community through “Fight Clubs” and how true friends are developed as a result. If you missed it, I highly recommended catching up.
As for the second “Fair-Weather” term’…In 2010 the Texas Rangers broke an 11 year playoff drought when they made it to the coveted series; it was amazing how all of a sudden there was a huge outpouring of fandom with the ‘claw’ and ‘antlers,’ along with Josh Hamilton jerseys that popped up everywhere you looked. To me, it was the truest example of Fair-Weather Fans because before that season I lived in Texas for 3 years with virtually no mention of the Arlington based team. Based on those two examples you could see where this post will be going. When I googled “Fair-Weather Faith” I discovered that there is a song with the exact title from the rock band Extreme and then I also this comic that really makes the point perfectly!
“Fair-Weather Faith” exists only during times of success and happiness. People with this milquetoast approach to faith will serve God when life is good, but once times get tough, it dissipates as quickly as the morning dew. In the Parable of the Sower, Jesus warned about those who had faith like this (see Luke 8:4-15).
We also get some insight from the Revelation 3:15-16 (NLT) in which Jesus said this in The Message to the Church in Laodicea:
“I know all the things you do, that you are neither hot nor cold. I wish that you were one or the other! But since you are like lukewarm water, neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth!”
That is some strong words from Jesus but remember that He is the savior of the world so we best heed His advice.
As I was talking about this Thought with my family, my 16-year-old daughter made this great statement which I will pose to you:
This is a question we all must ask ourselves and come to terms with BEFORE the Storms of Life roll in…The muse for this Thought came last Saturday when I was texting a friend of mine to try to encourage him because he was over a 1,000 miles away from home at the Cancer Center of America. And His response rocked me to the core!
“I’m just getting out of bed. It’s 8:30 here. I’m in either day 3 or 4 of my first cycle. I think it’s the 3rd, but today’s nurses are saying 4th. I mean what do I know – except the one who’s been getting to actually see the changeover from one bag to another
But throughout the round of chemo, I’ve felt incredibly well. God’s grace has been amazing. He really is a good, good Father.
Day by day, His grace sustains me and He continuously shows me that He is still God and that He still heals.
I’ve committed to live out this journey in stewardship of whatever He desires. There will be a story to tell that I believe will touch lives.
I’ve been walking everyday around the hallways and just praying for everyone I see in a room.”
WOW! As I read these texts from my friend Avito I was absolutely blown away from his extreme faith. He is battling a rare type of cancer: a primary mediastinal b-cell lymphoma. I am no doctor, but once you hear the word ‘cancer,’ fear and trepidation grips your heart and once you add “rare” on top of that, I would imagine that an emotional paralysis of sort would follow. I am uncertain how I would react to such a diagnosis. When you read those words above, it is clear that Avito has truly leaned on his faith in God almighty, the creator of Heaven and Earth. He’s fought a brave fight against the cancer and recently decided to pursue an integrative cancer treatment that incorporates a naturopathic element with the conventional methods to treating the lymphoma. If you were to ask him why he can stare at this challenge with such a sense of peace, Avito would calmly but with much faith tell you,
“How can you not when you get a diagnosis, and immediately then be assured with a Holy Spirit whisper that says more loudly, ‘This sickness is not onto death, but for the glory of God, that the Son of God may be glorified in it.’”
Absolutely incredible…talk about the fulfillment of Hebrews 10:23 (NLT):
“Let us hold tightly without wavering to the hope we affirm, for God can be trusted to keep His promise.”
Will you trust God when a diagnosis of cancer is pronounced, or the loss of a child unexpectantly happens? Or if you are laid off from your job or bankruptcy is filled. Where will your faith be at those times? When the rubber meets the road, you (and me too) need to:
“Let Your Faith Speak so loud your heart can’t hear what doubt is saying.”
Doubt is a powerful force, one that Satan continually uses against us. Since the beginning of time, he has been filling our minds with thoughts that God has failed or abandoned us, that the circumstance or diagnosis we are facing is impossible but that just is not so!
“Faith is not knowing what the future holds, but knowing who holds the future.”
God is sovereign and in control and it is precisely at those moments of greatest trial that we need to hold fast to the Lord. In the post ★ Thought for the Day – What Does God’s Love Mean? ★ I shared about my wife contracting Lyme’s Disease in the summer of 2013. For those of you who don’t know about this often misdiagnosed illness, Lyme’s Disease is a debilitating disease that affects the neurological system when a bacterium enters the body from a deer tick bite. As a result of this contagion, the body is devastated and if it is left untreated it can cause paralysis and in some cases even death. As the darkness surrounded my wife and our family, we grabbed hold of God like never before and searched through the Bible for encouragement. My old Pastor from NJ gave this advice long ago to pray the scriptures back to God. So that is exactly what we did, we prayed and prayed for healing and deliverance.
One verse that brought us great comfort was James 5:13-16 (NLT) which describes the “The Power of Prayer”…
“Are any of you suffering hardships? You should pray. Are any of you happy? You should sing praises. Are any of you sick? You should call for the elders of the church to come and pray over you, anointing you with oil in the name of the Lord. Such a prayer offered in faith will heal the sick, and the Lord will make you well. And if you have committed any sins, you will be forgiven.
Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results.”
My wife suffered many days as we prayed and waited for the medication to take effect. For three days I prayed and fasted for her to come out of the fog and for the debilitating fatigue that was wreaking havoc on her body to pass. On the darkest night, we called on our Pastor for prayer and I anointed my wife with oil as James instructed and through God’s mercy and the medication finally taking effect she took a turn for the better. As I think back on that summer and how my wife’s sickness affected our family, if our faith was not rock solid before we went into that storm I don’t know what would have happened. We grew closer to God in that season than in any other time of our life. God was there with us, I know that with every fiber of my being! Every step of the way, our Heavenly Father providing everything we needed but we would never have experienced it if our faith was Fair-weathered. I was reading Psalm 103:1-5 (ESV) the other day and was reminded about His provision and the many, many benefits of serving Him…
“Bless the Lord, O My Soul Of David. Bless the Lord, O my soul, and all that is within me, bless his holy name! Bless the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits, who forgives all your iniquity, who heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit, who crowns you with steadfast love and mercy, who satisfies you with good so that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s.
Charles Stanley had this great life lesson…
“God wants every part of us – body, soul, and spirit – to grow closer to Him and to enter into a joyful relationship with Him. He seeks worshipers who will gladly give everything they are to Him.”
Like a good father, God wants to be a part of every moment of our lives if we will invite Him in. The question is will you worship God even in the darkest hour? In Christ we can find strength for the struggle and faith for the fight, we just need to make the decision to trust in Him. What will you choose?
I am going to close this Thought a little different than I normally do. Since the muse for this post was my friend’s unshakeable faith I wanted to tell you a little more about him and his lovely family. Avito and his wife, Shelly, met in Bible college in 1997. They married in 1999 and 10 years later decided that adoption would be the means through which they would build their family. Avito and Shelly adopted (3) brothers in 2009 and then again in 2016 they felt the strong desire to yet again expand their family through adoption; a process that started in July of 2016 when (3) new siblings were placed in their home while waiting for the final adoption to come.
Joy did come that morning, but it was rather short-lived, or so it seemed. Just weeks after having placement of these recent three new kids, Avito started experiencing things that just didn’t feel right in his body. After weeks and many doctor visits and follow ups, he was finally admitted to Baylor Grapevine where he was subsequently diagnosed with a somewhat rare type of cancer: a primary mediastinal b-cell lymphoma. The tumor is near the thymus gland in his chest, close to his heart. Avito is now having Chemotherapy done at the Cancer Center of America in Phoenix, Arizona. Last Saturday was the first of a minimum of (6) rounds. The rounds are 3 weeks apart so he will get one week of treatment, go home for two weeks, and then go back to Phoenix for the next 18 months. Unbeknownst to me, when God placed Avito on my heart to reach out last Saturday, he was just beginning the arduous journey. Here is a picture of this beautiful family
Why am I sharing all of this? Well I am glad you asked…I wanted to invite you into my brother in Christ’s story so that you could prayer for God’s healing and provision for Avito, Shelly and their (6) adopted children. Also I wanted to see if you would like to come alongside of this wonderful family who are going through a frightening and expensive storm of life. If you would like to help them financially you can got to their “Let’s Beat Lymphoma Together | Medical Expenses – YouCaring” page here:
In yesterday’s post (Part 3a) we introduced the dangers of pornography and promiscuity and how important it was to avoid yielding to these Temptations because they can escalate into more devastating sins. We also discussed that sexual integrity is possible IF we will follow what the Word of God has to say. If you haven’t read Part 3a I highly recommend that you do, because it sets the foundation for today’s Thought for the Day which we will see what happens when we don’t shut down the carnal desires inside of us and ignore the warnings signs. Our case study is someone who probably thought he was too powerful to ever fall, but fall did he ever. I am speaking of King David, a man after God’s own heart, (see 1 Samuel 13:14, Acts 13:22).
David was a complex man. For those not familiar with him, he was youngest of (8) children who tended his father’s sheep and played the harp. But before you think that he was soft or weak, we find out in 1 Samuel 17:34-36 that David would chase after lions and bears with nothing but a club after a lamb was stolen from the flock and killed them. David is also known for slaying Goliath the Giant, the Philistine’s prized warrior who had come to wage war on the nation of Israel. Eventually David became king over Israel and was referred to by God as a “Man of War” in 1 Chronicles 28:2-3! By all accounts David was a mighty strong man, but though the King was able to overcome every nation that came against him, his undoing was his flesh! Lust was his Achilles’ heel, his kryptonite, the one vulnerable chink in his armor that brought David to his knees, literally! But I am getting ahead of myself; let’s continue to understand the man a little more. In 1 Samuel 18:17-30, 25:39-42 and, 2 Samuel 3:2–5, 11:26-27, 5:13 the names of David’s (8) wives are listed. And the in 2 Samuel 5:13 (NLT) it says:
“After moving from Hebron to Jerusalem, David married more concubines and wives, and they had more sons and daughters.”
David clearly had an overactive libido and his failure to master the temptation of lust caused him to go down a path I bet he never dreamed possible. Whether you know the Bible well or not, you have probably heard something about David and Bathsheba, a story that reads much like a Shakespearean tragedy.
You can read the whole story about David and Bathsheba in 2 Samuel 11:1-12:25 but here’s the Cliff Notes version of the sordid affair. The chronicle of David and Bathsheba is a cautionary tale about adultery and how we must watch out for guideposts along the path of life alerting us to danger. There were many warning signs and opportunities for David to “course correct” but he ignored each and every one of them. I pray that this powerful King’s “fall from grace” will resonate with us that we can avoid the pitfall of lust. Now we will be primarily speaking of a man’s failure to overcome lust but this is something that women need to be wary of the Satan’s traps like connecting with an old boyfriend on Facebook, sharing intimate details with a male friend / co-worker, or losing oneself in romance novels that could be considered a form of pornography in itself. In response to a question about whether it is okay to watch the new 50 Shades of Grey movie, Mark Driscoll made this point about how to make good decisions…
“Whether it’s what movies to watch, what songs to listen to, or any other number of choices, determining the godliness of a decision depends on one simple question…Does this glorify Christ, or does it gratify my sinful desires? Source: “Is It Ok To Watch 50 Shades Darker?” video
Does this ___________ (fill in the blank) glorify Christ, or does it gratify my sinful desires?That is a decision even man and woman needs to make for themselves.
Okay tangent is over; now back to David and his poor decisions.It all started quite innocently. David took a day off, or rather a season off. Let me explain…unlike today, it was customary at that time for the King to go to battle with his troops. David however stayed behind and one day after waking up from a nap he saw a beautiful woman bathing from the roof of his palace. Red flag #1. No problem, he saw something he shouldn’t so all he needs to do is just look away right? Unfortunately he didn’t. Instead, David inquired about who she was and the flame of flirtation was fanned. But there’s no problem with flirting right? It’s okay if he looks as long as he doesn’t touch right? Maybe you are thinking that right now but that’s not what the Word of God instructs. In Job 31:1 (NLT) it says:
“I made a covenant with my eyes not to look with lust at a young woman.”
This would be a passage of scripture David would have known about and yet he dismissed it clearly. Jesus elevated the requirement when He said in Matthew 5:27-28 (NLT):
“You have heard the commandment that says, ‘You must not commit adultery.’ But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”
I like how The Message translates verse 28
“But don’t think you’ve preserved your virtue simply by staying out of bed. Your heart can be corrupted by lust even quicker than your body. Those leering looks you think nobody notices—they also corrupt.”
Looking is not any better than touching and we need to realize that it will corrupt our heart. So back to the story…David is told that Bathsheba is married and one would think that being “a man after God’s own heart” he will let it go right? Nope. Warning sign #2 ignored. David sent messengers to bring Bathsheba to the palace and in 1 Samuel 11:4 it records that he slept with her. We are not given any details about if it was coerced or consensual, but the sin of adultery was committed nonetheless. Remember the verse we read in the last post from James 1:15? When sin is allowed to grow, it gives birth to death, and such is the case with David because Bathsheba conceived after their affair! I am reminded of Proverbs 6:26b-29 (NLT) which warns that:
“…sleeping with another man’s wife will cost you your life. Can a man scoop a flame into his lap and not have his clothes catch on fire? Can he walk on hot coals and not blister his feet? So it is with the man who sleeps with another man’s wife. He who embraces her will not go unpunished.”
Here’s guidepost #3 that the King would have been wise enough that he could have changed the downward spiral but instead of coming clean about the affair, David sends for her husband Uriah the Hittite to return back from the battle lines in order to try to cover up the illegitimate pregnancy. But it turns out that Uriah was far more honorable than the King he served. David tried to get him to sleep with Bathsheba twice, but her husband would not. 2 Samuel 11:11 says:
“Uriah replied, ‘The Ark and the armies of Israel and Judah are living in tents, and Joab and my master’s men are camping in the open fields. How could I go home to wine and dine and sleep with my wife? I swear that I would never do such a thing.’”
So here we land at the proverbial fork in the road with Signpost #4 in which David is out of options, it’s time to confess right? Once again, the King ignores the peril and in 1 Samuel 11:14-15 we see how David arranged for Uriah’s Death:
“So the next morning David wrote a letter to Joab and gave it to Uriah to deliver. The letter instructed Joab, ‘Station Uriah on the front lines where the battle is fiercest. Then pull back so that he will be killed.’”
Wow! This passage has always been hard for me to understand because not only did David arrange for Uriah’s death, but he sent him to deliver his own death sentence all because of David’s adulterous lust and inability to take responsibility for his actions. What’s even more shocking to me was the fact that Joab actually participated in the murder! You know that the Bible is true by the fact that the dirty laundry is aired out for all to see. God does not allow skeletons to be kept locked away in the closet. Jesus said in Luke 8:17 (NLT),
“For all that is secret will eventually be brought into the open, and everything that is concealed will be brought to light and made known to all.”
Another warning from scripture is from Proverbs 6:32-34 (NLT) which says:
“But the man who commits adultery is an utter fool, for he destroys himself. He will be wounded and disgraced. His shame will never be erased. For the woman’s jealous husband will be furious, and he will show no mercy when he takes revenge.”
Now in the case of Uriah, he never knew the betrayal of his King, but the truth remains, what is done in the dark will be exposed eventually and when it does, wrath will result from the spouse who was cheated on. I have a friend who is walking through the healing process from committing adultery on his wife and I remember so clearly when he told me that the woman’s husband contacted him at work and the viciousness that was unleashed on him. Lust led David to progressively escalate his sin to cover the previous one. Temptation works much like boiling a frog in water; the heat slowly builds until it is too late and then it is boiled alive. The eventual consummation of sin is just the final nail in the coffin. Conceding to temptation is a slow fade of the man or woman who fails to recognize the guideposts. Here’s the sad fact about giving into temptation…
“You don’t realize all that you are giving up in the moment of temptation.” Unknown
But Romans 13:14 (ESV) gives us the remedy!
“But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires.”
There needs to be a zero tolerance approach to lust. We read 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 in the last post that gives a very clear command!
“Flee from sexual immorality!” And if we fail to, we need to repent and ask God to forgive us. That is eventually what David did after God sent his prophet Nathan to confront him. David confessed his guilt and had to face some pretty tough consequences. 2 Samuel 12:13-18a says:
“Then David confessed to Nathan, ‘I have sinned against the Lord.’
Nathan replied, ‘Yes, but the Lord has forgiven you, and you won’t die for this sin. Nevertheless, because you have shown utter contempt for the word of the Lord by doing this, your child will die.’
After Nathan returned to his home, the Lord sent a deadly illness to the child of David and Uriah’s wife. David begged God to spare the child. He went without food and lay all night on the bare ground. The elders of his household pleaded with him to get up and eat with them, but he refused.
Then on the seventh day the child died.”
Ouch! David went from being referred to as a “Man after God’s own heart,” to becoming an adulterer, liar, conspirator and murderer. And in the end he lost the child that was conceived as a consequence of his sin.
David cried out to God in Psalms 51:7-12 (NLT)
“Purify me from my sins, and I will be clean; wash me, and I will be whiter than snow. Oh, give me back my joy again; you have broken me — now let me rejoice. Don’t keep looking at my sins. Remove the stain of my guilt. Create in me a clean heart, O God. Renew a loyal spirit within me. Do not banish me from your presence, and don’t take your Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of your salvation, and make me willing to obey you.”
Yes David was “a man after God’s own heart,” but a man still the same who was susceptible to the same temptations we all face. The trouble is he that he let his guard down and failed to overcome the lust within himself! In our introductory post★ Thought for the Day – Avoiding a Whole “LOT” of Trouble ★, we read the warning of 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 but today I want to look at the hope that the Apostle Paul gives in verses 11-13 (ESV)
“And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God. All things are lawful for me,” but not all things are helpful. ‘All things are lawful for me,’ but I will not be dominated by anything. ‘Food is meant for the stomach and the stomach for food’ — and God will destroy both one and the other. The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body.”
Verse 12 is so powerful…“I will not be dominated by anything.” When we give into temptation we are no longer in control of our lives, making us vulnerable to the enemy’s attacks and a slave!
I will close with this council from my friend had when I asked him what he would share with someone who is trying to heal from the affair. This is based on a male perspective but it certainly applies for a woman who may have committed adultery as well:
Boundaries, accountability, transparency, and honesty with God, your wife, and another man of God are fundamental to overcoming temptations regarding infidelity.
Healthy boundaries with the opposite sex are your first line of defense against this type of temptation, e.g. no personal friendships, no personal conversations, no private interactions.
Accountability partners that are not afraid to search your heart and ask the hard questions helps cover the areas that go beyond boundaries, e.g. thoughts and feelings.
Full transparency into every aspect of your life with God, your wife, and another man of God provides the best line of defense by shedding light on everything you do and removes the ability to hide anything.
Complete honesty, good, bad, or ugly, is necessary for any of this to work, whether trying to prevent infidelity from happening or healing afterwards.
Romans 12:1 (NLT) which says:
“And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice—the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him.”
Don’t allow lust to enslave you, instead let your life and body be holy and pleasing to God!
Here is the next installment of the Temptation Series called:
Our Temptation Series continues today with us unpacking how to avoid the Consequences of Lust. If you have missed the previous posts, we first introduced the series using Abraham’s Nephew “Lot” as a case study (you can click here to catch up). We then studied Noah and the trap of alcohol and drugs (click here.) This Thought will delve into an equally harmful pitfall which you may initially think is harmless but can easily go terribly wrong. Initially I thought we would be able to cover the temptation of Lust in this post but since it is such a broad topic, we will split this one in to a Part A and B. We will touch upon (3) areas which are interconnected as each enticement results in a subsequent escalating behavior that can destroy lives whether it is one’s reputation, relationships, and even employment. Three outlets of Lust that can result are…Pornography, PromiscuityandAdultery. There definitely are many other deviant behaviors that can be unleashed if Lust is unfettered but we will not venture into that darkness.
The Barna Research Group published an article called “New Research Explores the Changing Shape of Temptation” on January 25, 2013 and here is some of their findings from a study they conducted:
“Though sexual sins are nothing new, viewing pornography online continues to escalate and take on new forms as the Internet and social media evolve. Nearly one in five Americans (18%) say they are tempted to view pornography or sexually inappropriate content online.”
Now before we get started, I just want to make sure we are all on the same page…Pornography can be movies, pictures, magazines, books, etc. that show or describe naked people or sex for arousal. It used to be that you had to go to newsstand to buy a pornographic magazine or go into a seedy X-rated store to purchase videos but the dawn of the internet changed everything. Now pornographic content is available to anyone who has access to a computer, tablet or cell phone. My prayer for today is that if the area of Sexual Integrity has been compromised in your life, that God would open your eyes to the dangers of giving into lustful or fleshly desires. I pray that because you may be reading this post and not even think that Lust or viewing pornography as something to be avoided. Here are two shocking statistics from another article published from the Barna Research study called the “The Porn Phenomenon”:
Not recycling is more immoral than viewing porn!!!! How far down has our world degraded too??!! But even though the culture may view it as not a big deal, the Word of God has a much different viewpoint… 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 (ESV) commands:
In our last post ★ Thought for the Day – The End is Near…? ★, we discussed that in the End Times there will be Godlessness and rampant immorality, but that God sent Jesus to rescue us from Satan’s stranglehold in every area of life including Lust. We are to glorify God with our body and when we go down the dark road of pornography, promiscuity is a natural result. A simple way of defining promiscuity is having sex before marriage and potentially with multiple partners. Maybe you’re reading this and thinking: “What’s wrong with that? Shouldn’t we experiment before marriage to know what we like?” I know that is how I felt and that is exactly the trap that Satan sets through pornography and he will use any medium available. I read this quote from Jimmy Evans who nailed it when he said:
“Movies, television, magazines, and the Internet all display glamorized views of sexual immorality. They don’t show the disease. They don’t show the heartache that always results. They just show the fun—and it makes us feel like we’re missing out.” Source: “The Secrets of Lifelong Passion and Intimacy”
Everywhere we look sexual immorality is celebrated with no consequences or repercussions. “If it makes you feel good, go ahead and try it,” or “click here to see what everyone’s talking about…” FOMO reigns supreme! “Fear Of Missing Out” is not a new idea, it started back in Garden of Eden when Satan first planted the seed of doubt (see Genesis 3:1,) and it is alive and well today! The antidote to Satan’s venom is the truth that is found in the Word of God. Romans 13:13-14 (NLT) offers this for those who believe in Jesus:
“Because we belong to the day, we must live decent lives for all to see. Don’t participate in the darkness of wild parties and drunkenness, or in sexual promiscuity and immoral living, or in quarreling and jealousy. Instead, clothe yourself with the presence of the Lord Jesus Christ. And don’t let yourself think about ways to indulge your evil desires.”
It always comes back to a choice. We have to choose not to place ourselves in a vulnerable position by engaging in wild parties with alcohol and drugs because our inhibitions are greatly diminished. Many use Satan as a scapegoat, saying “The Devil made me do it.” And while it is true that he uses pornography to entrap people, James 1:14-15 (NLT) clearly shows that:
“Temptation comes from our own desires, which entice us and drag us away. These desires give birth to sinful actions. And when sin is allowed to grow, it gives birth to death.”
James was Jesus’ little brother so who better to instruct us right? It is our decision to whether we yield to what the Devil puts in front of us and when we do the consequences can be life changing. That is why understanding the destructive nature of pornography is key to have victory in the area of sexual integrity. But that will never happen if we don’t at first understand that pornography is just a worthless counterfeit of what God’s plan for Marriage which inevitably will lead to promiscuity. Sex is intended to be the glue to unite a man and woman in a covenantal relationship. Unfortunately long before they say “I do,” pornography distorts and pollutes the intimacy that was to be enjoyed between a husband and wife. When we give into the temptation of lust, we are trading beauty for filth which I know all too well. Like that statistic above, I was exposed to pornography around 12 years old and I was hooked. Long before I accepted Jesus and way too young to really process just what I was seeing, Satan was like a boa constrictor that just squeezing and squeezing the life from me. It repulses me to think of all garbage I allowed before my eyes and I wish I had never seen it. But there is hope! Regardless of what culture may say, people can and do change if they are willing to put the work.
Psalms 119:9-11 (NLT) says:
“How can a young person stay pure? By obeying your word. I have tried hard to find you — don’t let me wander from your commands. I have hidden your word in my heart, that I might not sin against you.”
Too easy? Perhaps but I truly believe that reading God’s Word, the Bible is the way to overcome Satan’s plans of corruption. You cannot just right over and over “I will not sin” on a chalkboard like in school or “will yourself” not to give into temptation thinking that your strong enough to resist. I cannot tell you how many times I thought that but ended up failing. 1 Corinthians 10:12-13 (NLT) warns…
“If you think you are standing strong, be careful not to fall. The temptations in your life are no different from what others experience. And God is faithful. He will not allow the temptation to be more than you can stand. When you are tempted, He will show you a way out so that you can endure.”
And Proverbs 16:18 (ESV) says:
“Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.”
The first step is recognizing that there is a problem and then establishing the proper boundaries. Tomorrow we will look into the “man after God’s own heart” who allowed the lust in his heart to go unabated. I will close with this advice from Woodrow Kroll of how to gain victory in life…
“Like our cell phone, Satan has an app for everything. He specializes in getting us off focus. Now the way to refocus is to set everything else aside, shut everything else out of our life. Sit done, sit still, open our Bible, and begin to absorb what God has for us. This doesn’t have to take hours but the more we focus on God and His Word the more we lose focus on the things that Satan tempts us with.”
Here is part B of this post which is the next installment of the Temptation Series called:
Weird title for a Thought for the Day huh? Well I hope it was interesting enough to get you to click on the link. Today I want to unpack the idea of being a “Chain Reaction Catalyst!” Now the term chain reaction may not be foreign but just so we are all on the same page, I will share the definition in the context of this post from what Dictionary.com defines a Chain Reaction as. It is:
“a series of events in which each event is the result of the one preceding and the cause of the one following.”
Some examples of chain reactions, is what happens after the first stick is set ablaze in a book of matches or after the initial domino is pushed.
Now you probably have heard of a catalyst in relation to a chemical reaction. In preparation for this Thought, I googled “what are examples of a catalyst,” and this is one result I found:
“The catalytic converter in a car contains platinum, which serves as a catalyst to change carbon monoxide, which is toxic, into carbon dioxide.”
Why am I sharing this? Well it is because the dreaded “check engine light” is currently on in my car. The error code that I was told suggests I have a problem with my catalytic converter. And in the movie, Rachel’s step father also had an issue with his catalytic converter also. I found the coincidence too funny not to share. Okay “squirrel moment” is over…
a person or thing that precipitates an event or change
a person whose talk, enthusiasm, or energy causes others to be more friendly, enthusiastic, or energetic.
So a Chain Reaction Catalyst is someone who causes a series of positive events to happen as a result of their influence. I believe that God desires every person who calls themselves a believer in Jesus to be bold in sharing their faith and being a world changer!
Last night I was watching the movie “I’m Not Ashamed” with my family about a girl who embodied what it means to be a Chain Reaction Catalyst. The movie came out last Fall (10/21/16) but unfortunately we missed seeing it in the Theaters.
For those who are not familiar, it is based on the inspiring and powerful true story of Rachel Joy Scott who was the first student killed in the Columbine High School shooting on April 20, 1999. It’s hard to believe that we are coming up on the 18 year anniversary of that horrific day when 2 students went on a shooting spree. At the time, it was one of the nation’s most deadly mass shootings. This movie was incredible, not because of the acting, though it was good, or because of the screenplay, in which the way the story unfolded was exceptional. No, what made the film extraordinary for me was the fact that it was drawn from the actual journal writings of Rachel Joy Scott. A lot of the dialogue and scenes came straight from Rachel